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so I was in transportation tech the other day at my high school, and it is a well known fact in my school that I play guitar in a death metal band (and we are actually pretty good), so the teacher asked to hear some of our work. but this kid comes up to me and says "are you in a metal band" I say yes and he says to me "are you gay", then he starts insulting my girlfriend so I'm really mad at this point, however since I didn't know how to handle it I brushed it off and walked away, did I do the right thing, if not what should I have done.

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The guy might have just been jealous of the teacher wanting to hear you play and he could like your girlfriend. He's probably just jealous of you being known for your music. But you handled it right. And since he couldn't hurt you by asking if you're gay he tried being rude to your girlfriend.

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I think you did the right thing. This guy was obviously not a rational person, so fighting or arguing would only make it worse.

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Thank you, i mean I didn't do anything provoke him, he just started being very unkind and rude towards me and I didnt know if I had done anything wrong In that situation
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Yes you did the right thing.

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Sounds like you did the right thing cause that person is he type that criticize cause they can't be like you so they are jealous of you and that's their way to show that to you

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You did the right thing. Starting a fight doesn't accomplish anything. It makes you a bad influence. If you walk away every time, he will realize that you don't care and he will eventually leave you alone.

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True, plus the guy was a good foot taller than me and was about twice my weight
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Really? I pictured him as a foot shorter.
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Nah, I'm tall but this guy was huge I am 5'8 and weigh 127 lbs just so u can compare this guy was 6'5, like I said about a foot taller and 270 lbs
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