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Should I be a little offended? See description

so my best guy friend (we both have a crush on each other) and I were hanging out around school a month(ish) ago and I was wearing my hair down. my hair is dark and really thick and wavy and I thought I would wear it down that day because it looked decent. sometimes I would straighten my hair. my friend said "Why don't you straighten your hair more? it looks better that way." honestly, I like my hair straight too, but I can't help but feel a tad bit offended because he doesn't really like my hair the way it is. I don't know. should I feel offended?

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Buttonz_again

I would be offended but its not the end of the world. Its just one persons opinion. So what if he doesn't like it. It only about what you like.

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I don't think it was meant to be rude. He was probably just complementing you.

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No he's only making a suggestion of his opinion...

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He probably didn't mean to be rude

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im a guy and ive said that before and i only meant it a a complement but she did seem a little offended

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try not to worry too much about it maybe he thinks you look cutier that way

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Maybe he was just trying to give you advice.

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It's kind of offensive, but no big deal. He probably wasn't really thinking about what he was saying

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There is no reason to be offended. He's just telling you his favorite style of hair that you use. He's pointing our what he likes about you. Like how cute you look with your hair up. :)

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coolliz77

guys are dumb, like two days ago i was really bored so i was making squeaky noises with my shoes and this kid compared me to a dog because his dog also does that, then he says does it make it better if i say i like my dog? it was so stupid i started laughing.

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Guys are cute,what does he look like

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