if you want to go religious then yes ..however there are plenty of marriages that produce children yet end in divorce. alternately there are unmarried couples who have children and are very happy and can stay together for years without marriage.
Yes, I believe it is wrong because having children outside of marriage has heightened the risk of the child being without one or the other parent over a?short period of time. I'm a school teacher and trust me when children fight or argue with each other that is when the word bastard comes out. I believe that the ability to raise a child hinges largely on committment, and that committment is enshrined in marriage.?:)
What would you say if your child asked you that question? I believe that there should be no children with no compromise. Its like saying there should be no car without seatbelts. Well, the chances of one having to raise a child alone are way much higher than the chances of one being saved by seatbelts, but believe it or not, thousands of lives have been saved by seatbelts.
But if you already have a child, then its better to keep the child. Any other choice, there s a bigger chance you will regret it. Gby