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I'm having problems with my ex girlfriend and don't know what to do?

well we been going out for 4 years. but we ain't together anymore. but we have a 6 month old baby boy. and I recently find out she has a boyfriend. I can't stay mad at her tho. because I have a lot of feelings for her and we have a baby together. i tried to move on but i cant and she recently told me that she thinks of me all the time and her feeling for me is stronger then her boyfriend because they just meet. but at the same time she is mad and angry at me for what happen in the past and doesn't know if she can forgive me. so give me some advice. should I hold on and see where this goes or keep trying to move on?.. please answer.

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You should most definitely try to work things out if possible. Mostly for the childs sake. We dont need to know what you did but you need to try to make amends and show her that you can be stand up. Make sure the baby is taken care of REGARDLESS though. That is priority number one.

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Good answer Neanderthal.
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I think you guys should try to work things out !!!

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I would tell her exactly how you feel and plead and beg for forgiveness if you truly want her

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Try to work all this out I think. Tell her that your sorry for what ever you did and say that your never gonna do it again

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you have to think of the baby. plus you cant just throw away 4 years. work it out, but dont make the same mistakes twice.

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At the end of the day you need to have a life. Why don't you just take each day as it comes. If you meet someone then you do. You don't know that even if you got back with your x if it would work so my advice is be a good dad but find a new life for yourself & make sure any potential partner would be willing to love & care for your child. Goodluck

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Instead of holding on to see where things go, let go of it and see where things go. She tells you that she thinks of you a lot yet she has another boyfriend, three is a crowd.

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Awhh..yall should just talk and take things slow.Have an open relationship & slowly turning it into a long term relationship. And don't do anything to break her trust again. Be honest with her about everything. Remember how you felt in the beginning

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Work things out, unless the reason you broke up was bad.

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Go with your heart. I'm in the same situation with my daughters father but we have an 10 year old. I've tried to work things out also have tried to forgive him. We would do ok for a few weeks then we'll go bad all over again. Your situation can go either way. Good luck

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