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What steps to go by to forgive your man and let him make everything up to you to make things better

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Try to have a positive attitude and not to blame him too much. Real forgiveness is forgiving and forgetting. Be sweet and happy :)

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That is so right, so I just have to stay in character in keep a good forgiving spirit
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Yeah, and that can really be hard sometimes..at least for me. What I found helps is to remember that they are truly sorry, so that I don't slide back into wanting to feel hurt or blaming them again.
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Oh! And don't hesitate to tell him how the whole thing made you feel. Leave no ground uncovered! But remember while you're telling him those things, to just be honest and loving, make sure he knows you're NOT blaming him, you are telling how it made you FEEL. Guys hate feeling blamed and not trusted.
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Jewelry should be involved.

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Lol! That's in progress
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It worked for Kobe Bryant.
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Well, you need to let him know that you're not ok with something he's done. Tell him how you feel and let him take the initiative to ask for forgiveness. This way, you'll know if he's really remorseful.

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All of that exploded since before Valentine's day. But I believe that he's truly dedicated to make an complete change
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You are already falling again. See this is what shows he can do it again, your to soft. Be more hard in this situation. Sorry to get in but its true...
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If you shouldn't forgive him. There are good men out there.

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That's one thing I don't need. I know what you mean though, but a genuine person is super rare
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Don't do the things you normally do, change things. Set your limits to try understand they hurt you.

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Ok, that's something that I need to work on, cause I do admit I do a lil too much than what even a wife does. Thank you
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Exactly. Your not a mat, don't let them walk on you. Set your standards. I would Talk to other people to to set it straight. Welcome!! Good luck!
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Start by making sure you are not being taken advantage of and treated badly like a doormat. Forgiveness is a good thing but don't lower your self esteem.

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You're right n that is very important too cause its damages you
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