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How do I deal with my dads GF that's moving in?

Okay,so I need help. My dad met a girl in Alabama for my uncles wedding,and he suddenly loves her.and that's stupid,cuz few seconds of talking and BAM they are making out in the airport,she stole his attention from me.i dont hate her,she just makes me uncomfortable.and after we got home a week later I found out she was going to move in with us in 3 weeks,now it's 1 week. He didn't even ask of what I thought about it! What do I do?

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I don't like this, you have to be regarded as a person and your input is critical, I'm afraid your dad is in lust and right now is blind and not considering your feelings. I would ask him straight out why he didn't ask how you felt, this should have been set up differently, I just hope she doesn't try to take charge, that will only breed contempt...

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Yah but he's not the one who decides what the rules are he's the child and and he has to listen and follow directions.
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Blah ha ha haha
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Yeah 50fia...but a DECENT parent would put their child before a roll in the hay.
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TL don't bother, they're brain dead...
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Which explains the prevalent style of parenting these days. Sad
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Yes...
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My dad isn't stupid,but it was pretty dumb oh him to do that.
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Agreed...
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And I did not say he was stupid...
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Talk to your father, about how you feel

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Just ignore anything that she does just to prejudice your relationship with your dad.
Give your dad NO reason to be mad at you.
Try to be nice, even if she isn't nice to you.
Be yourself, you don't have to change anything about you. Life still goes on.
Let you dad know how you feel, if he doesn't listens, let it go.

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I learned something from your answer
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May I know what?
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Try to get to know the girlfriend. Its so normal to be uncomfortable to be around your dads new girlfriend.

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Just be patient. Nothing you can say at this point will make any difference. This is happening too fast and it probably wont take long for the "love" to wear out. It will be easier on you if you relax and wait.

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Don't be selfish. Do you want your dad to be lonely. Try to get along and be nice. If you care about your dad give this woman a chance. Good luck.

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get to know her mabey you'll get to like her more...plus if your dad really likes this girl you should get over it and learn to like her

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Rude
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I meant about Coleman's answer no yours
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do u pay the bills

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Dude I'm only 13...
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well..move in with your mom! if i lived with my dad, and he didnt even care about my feelings to not ask if i was ok with this..i would move out in a heartbeat! but thats my opinion..do what you feel you should do.

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Bond with her. A lot of kids are orphanants and wish to have parents and you do so be grateful you have parents and that your dad is happy now if she's mean with than that's another story tell your dad and she's busted.

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