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My ex boyfriend is jealous, but he's the one who dumped me?

My ex boyfriend is a really jealous and possessive guy. Not long ago, he broke up with me because he said he couldn't do this anymore. He said he needs to man up and love himself a little more before he is ready to engage in a relationship. Out of anger, I decided to make him jealous over face book by adding guys, and my friends posted a lot of new pictures of me with a smiling face. 3 days after, he blocked and deleted me from his contacts. I tried emailing me, but it's making it worst, he says he's gonna block me. I don't know what to do anymore. Why is he jealous if he doesn't want to be with me anymore? Also, he is paying for my phone but didn't cut the line yet. It is only a 1 month contract, but if he didn't want to talk to me ever again he would cut it no?

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Guys will break up with a girl to feel in control and even though he doesn't like you anymore he still wants to know that you are heartbroken over him. And he might not cut the line because he hasn't thought to do that. My advice, leave him alone but stop with all the pictures and guys. It's okay to move on but don't be mean about it. He might not be completely over you yet and you should respect that.

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He told me he still loves me just can't do this anymore. Does it really make sense...? And the reason I was doing this is because he's hurting me, and I wanted him to come back beg me. Is there a possibility this will happen? Or is he gonna be mad forever. I don't know how to handle this.
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candybar

I think the message is pretty clear. Leave him alone and stop playing games!

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awww :( i say go to his house and try to talk it out and tell him how you really feel.no shame i did almost the same thing.

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He lives too far, or els I totally would :P
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man that sucks:( but try calling him if you dont have his number i say talk to him at any time you see him. (i might help)
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Cute how ur asking on ask.com

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trendseta

Maybe you should Just leave him alone so he can think let him contact u when or if he's ever ready

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right 100%
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my dad told me many years ago that jealousy is the worst disease you could ever have! i am glad i have never forgot this...

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