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My girlfriend gets nervous around me what can I do to comfort her?

I can't do anything not school appropriate but hugs and hand holding is okay

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Tell her that there is nothing to worry about and that you just want to show her your affection.

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make her feel comfortable before trying to get close to her be her bestfriend and make her laugh talk to her about topics she wants to

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How old are you and how long have you been dating? Are you her first boyfriend? There are factors that may contribute to her being nervous. Until you provide some details, I'll give you a generic answer: Give her time.

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I'm 14 and she is 13 and I'm not calling her a wh@re but she has had a lot of expierence with guys and me and hef went to a dance yesterday and she usually isn't nervous but she wouldn't dance or talk or anything and I'm worried about her
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That's not a good sign.
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Try relaxing around her. I'm still not sure how long you've been in a relationship for, but you can't expect her to warm up immediately. Forgive me for making assumptions, but I'm sure you jumped into a relationship without going on dates, so use some time to be yourself around her, tell jokes, laugh, make her comfortable with you. Don't be forward, don't try to rush. My boyfriend and I have only been in a relationship for 3 months (I'm 16, he's 17) and we take it very slow.
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Make her laugh , tell her you like her make her feel secure don't do anything that will make her feel sad or uncomfortable it takes time....

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Maybe you're not supposed to do anything? Let her decide when she wants more. Don't push her. Be a gentleman

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show her that you care about her and tell her that she can tell you anything and that you will ALWAYS listen. she could just be scared. make sure to takes things slow and don't push her to do anything.....that will make her trust you.

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What is ur name in real life
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If u don't mind me asking
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RedRose

just joke around and smile a lot.

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Sorry, I accidentally reported your answer. Please forgive me. :(
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No worries!
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Ok. :3
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JuggaloPride

Be funny and happy.

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She's just nervous around you because she really likes you. You can't really do anything about how you give her butterflies. Just try and make it not awkward, make her laugh, joke around, find common interest, and make inside jokes. That'll make her open up to you more ;)

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