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What should i do with my relationship

ok so after christmas time me and my gf went with her church to a rock concert and i was messing with her email and found out she was talking to another guy on there like i didnt exist and then her email lead me out onto a dating site which she had a account with and again she was also talking to another guy on there like i didnt exist and after that i was on one of her other accounts and a guy told me that she sent him a pic without her bra or anything on so the next day i asked her and she denied it until i showed her and she said she never sent a pic but then again why would that guy lie and ever since me and her have been ok i guess but i just can't fully trust her like i used to and my relationship is starting to get to a point where i dont know whats gonna happen and a lot of other girls have told me they like me and the thing is they have never done anything to me and im just to confused to figure it out by myself so please help

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In any relationship there has to be trust. If you can't trust her and if it doesn't seem to bother her that you can't trust her she isn't worth your time. If she really cared about you she would either admit that she's made a mistake and try to get your trust back or even tell you she isn't happy and break it off, But she hasn't done either of those so I Thank the best thing for you to do would be to break it off.

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Well said. Excellent answer.
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Leave her. If she took you in the slightest bit serious as her man, she wouldn't be flirting with other guys.
She'll never change, not for you anyways.
No point wasting anymore time on that one, move onto the next one. Maybe another one will take you seriously.

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Just break up with her. Your just hurting yourself. And if you want you can stay single for a moment and wait for the right girl. Good luck bro. I know it sucks but you have to make a choice... Get hurt by pretending that she's not cheating or anything or get a quick pain from breaking up with her... So choose wisely. And good luck again :)

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dude dump the chick and go to one of those other girls, i mean if ur not conforeible with her why date her? (sorry bout my spelling)

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its cool i can read it and btw its comfortable
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ok so now you need to ask your self can you go out with a girl that has been lying to you?(trust me, im a master at lying you just have to get the thing out over her. Make her feel uncomfortable with a weird question and she'll break if she's hiding anything else.) Then you have to decide if u still want to go out with her! I mean you do have other girls drooling over u sooo if you like one of them shoot for it!
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Personally I'd break up with her, you can't trust her. What is the point if she doesn't tell the truth.

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yeah that is true
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Break up with her. No one deserves to be treate like that!

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Do whatever your gut tells you to do, no one on this forum knows your relationship and your girlfriend like you do; with that said if you feel as though she is lying.. break-up with her and if you feel as though she may have made a mistake then forgive her. Just please don't entirely base your decision on what the people on this site tell you to do because you may or may not regret it later. I wish you much luck. Remember, if you guys do split up that there are millions of fish in the sea. :D

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yeah im not basing it off everyone on here i will make the final decision i just wanna see what people on here say
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She's lying, break it off, pretend she is dead and move on. She will lie again, don't let her manipulate or guilt or whatever, just say you are done and leave it at that.

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dump that bi!ch

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id prefer to keep that friendly
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Well first off you shouldn't have been moseying. But since you did you now have to deal with it. Tell her how you feel or do same to her.

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Has she just totally denied everything you found out, even with the proof ?
If so, how can you believe anything she says or does in these situations again.
You need to weigh up the consequences of staying in a relationship that may suck all your joy away because you're paranoid & always looking over her shoulder, so to speak.
I hope you make the best decision for you.

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Can't live like that!
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no way.
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Sounds like shes a big flirt.. She can deny it all she wants the pics are there her e- mail
Doesn't lie so you know whats going on its time to ask yourself do i want this...?
If she lies to you that means she doesn't respect you

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You need to ask yourself, are you going to be happy with her? Do you want live like this being paranoid all the time? How can you trust this girl? I think you've answered your own question, mate! Good Luck. Find someone who will appreciate you.

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i fully agree
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Break up with her. Here's the thing about cheaters, if they did what they did, they don't love you.

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Break up before something worst will happen that will hurt you even more
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