Crap or get off the pot?
Been together and living together for 3yrs. He has 3 kids. Full custody of one (biological mom passed away & wasnt ever n the pic) & the other two he has every other weekend. For 3yrs iv lived as a "housewife". Cook clean take care of his kids. Iv even met his family which all live n a different state. They consider me family and even his kids call me step mom. Hes been married before and so have I so not wanting to get hurt is understandable. But we have in detail talked about getting married. Roght down to the dress, time of year the whole 9yards. But still no ring. I still have the title as girlfriend now im not complainng i wouldnt trade any second of the last 3 yrs but i am a housewife without the actual title benifets etc. Its not the title or benifits im wantng. Im wanting the extra commitment. We have even looked at rings. What should i do? Press the issue and potentially scare him off or just set around and wait? He tells me all the time he cant wait to spend the rest of his life with me . And I cant wait either but somethins gotta give? Any suggestions, comments, opinions???