Is he still in love with you?A good marriage is more than sex, but if one is not happy in one's marriage, wellllll.Nothing will work. You need to communicate with your husband,. Is it you? Is it him? You might both need to go for counseling.Maybe your hubby isn't feeling well...maybe he is tired of marriage, A lot of maybes, and no answers, equal outside help. Five years ..don't want to throw it away if it is a matter of communicating..seek help Good luck
Revoke his man card! Most men think about $ex hundreds of times a day! I would try talking to him about it! Maybe there are medical issues he doesn't want to discuss without some prodding! If talking, lingerie, and 50 shades of grey doesn't work, time to think about recycling this one and find a better working model!
Two of the easiest to identify problems are 1) not so much a lack of "sex" .. But the lack of "intimacy" that screams there is more than a mechanical issue. .. 2) a communication problem .. Which kind of ties in with problem number 1.
You, as a couple need to communicate to find out where this is coming from, so you can work that out .... Then the other problem will follow suit.
I'd say cheat on him, but you probably wouldn't like that answer :P. Plus, I wouldn't follow that advice if I was married.
I'd say something's very wrong if he doesn't want to have sex with you. Because yes, you are incredibly hot, and men's sex drive is supposed to be *higher* than the woman's.
My therapist told me about a case similar to your own in which all the man needed were some suppliments to help his hormone levels. Something like that. Maybe it's something medically wrong with your husband.
Or maybe he has found another woman? I don't know that, but there is *always* a more attractive woman out there :(.