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Is it weird for a girl to want and have abs

because im kinda not skinny im only 13 and my mom keeps telling ill thin out that all the fat girls get skinny and all the skinny girls get fat but i want abs and how do i get them i dont want to be so skinny i look like i have a eating disorder but i just want like a six pack

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Its not weird. For some reason I always though it would be cool for me to have a six pack. You should do core work outs. Switch between things like push ups, sit ups, bicycles, leg lifts, and one minute planks.

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Nagisa! :D how is tomoya?
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Hes doing really good :). Hes such a great father
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And Ushio?
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Shes starting to grow up. I'm glad that she is making good grades in school so that she can be successful :) My moms bread is still bad, but my father insists that he loves her bread
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Not really. If it makes you happy go for it. do a bunch of sit ups and crunches.

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It isn't weird to want or have abs, and be a girl. I want abs, but I'll never get them because I'm too lazy. But you can get them by doing sit ups and crunches.

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No its not weird its your way of wanting yourself to have a good looking body.

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Not at all, just don't overdo exercising.
You can build up ab muscles by doing crunches, twists, and various other exercises (look these up, if you must). Just stay consistent with your exercises and try not to over exert yourself.

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You already have "abs" Abs are the muscles that hold your guts inside you. It is not weird for anyone to want to have toned muscles anywhere on their person.
Your mother is wrong by the way. Some skinny girls grow up to be skinny women. Some fat girls grow up to be fat women. It has a lot to do with genetics and how one cares for their own body.

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A lot if people think abs on girls look weird, but if you want abs you can do lots of sit-ups and what not.

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umm... In muscle commercials, they show women with abs, but I'm not sure about getting abs when you're only 13 :/

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being skinny is fine, if your so skinny you can't do anything that you want too do excercise. Its not weird, but the only reason skinny people may get fat is because they had a high metabolism wich goes away in mid 20s dont worry about abs because you can't really develope them healthy wise untill your 14.

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It is ok to want to feel and look fit.

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It's not weird at all!

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no not really

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It's not weird. I think girls with and are cute:) (no homo) it makes you look fit and not weak. first you gotta get skinny. then do lots of pushups and weight lifting.

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No it is not !!!

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No. I think it's cool.

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