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Im 15 lied 2 mom bout a guy n she found out shes very mad but i only lied cause i didnt want her to get mad, how do i gain her trust back?

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If your lying to your mom about this guy he obviously isn't the type of person that should be in your life or the type of person your parents would approve of and that must be why you lied in the first place. You need to communicate better with your mom and think again before you lie because it's very hard to trust after you find out your child has lied to you. Believe me I have a daughter.

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Have you ever heard this saying? Trust, Years to earn and seconds to break...

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Tell her exactly what your telling the people on ask, Im sorry for lying, I was afraid that you would get mad and I made a wrong decision.

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Well you could explain to her why you lied . You can try to ask her why she is so mad about one guy . And tell her you will try not to lie again

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That's why she doesn't trust you now, because you lied. It will take a long time to get it back because you have to earn it now, she won't just give it to you out of love.

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you have to do anything she asks and be the best child posible

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Time and more time. And during that time you cannot lie or mislead at all.

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Stop lying to her from now on. Tell her "I didn't want you to get angry. I'm sorry, I was being stupid."

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Thanks for the advice...and for calling me stupid lol
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Thats why it is SO very important to tell the truth. It will take a while for her trust to be earned back. This is what happens when you take it upon yourself to do whatever you want. Honesty is always always always the best policy.

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Stop lying.

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Trust is earned. You can't just magically hand it over. Just stop lying to your mom and respect her decisions for you and it may take time but after awhile you will earn her trust back.

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You need to tell her exzactly what you told us. Obviously you know this guy isnt right for you and your parents would not approve. Their for you need to listen to your mother and talk to her... and forget about the guy.

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If you told the truth it would've been a lot easier.

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Honey, your went through a door you shouldn't have. It is going to take a long time for mom to fully trust you again. The one person who would go through fire for you and you messed it up. "I'm sorry" isn't going to fix this. Start by, "I now realize I did something stupid..........". At the end of the day, week or year it's not prince charming who will be standing next to you, it will be the momma. Keep that in mind the next time you have a difficult choice to make. Parents are forever, boys come and go.

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To most people a lie about it, will always be worse than what you did wrong. To err is human and forgiveable that's your personal mistake. to lie is an insult to the intelligence of others, that's about what you did to them.

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You are 15, you need to focus on your grammar and pay attention in school because it is obvious you are falling behind.

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What do you mean I'm falling behind? This has nothing to do with my grammar or school.
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If you didn't want her to know about the guy, then you shouldn't be with him. Your mom knows this and that's why she's mad at you. You lost her trust because of a guy that you'll probably not end up with.

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Trust is earned. Lost trust is earned but it will take more time each time it is broken. But it is worth the effort. Demonstrating genuine sorrow will help.

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