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One of my friends is severely bullying me, my other friend is telling me not to be her friend. Should I listen to her or not?

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shockacow

Listen to her! She is looking out for you and being a real good friend! If she is going to bully to you she doesn't deserve a friendship.

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But she'll just deny it I know her she called me stupid and she denied it in front of the teacher.
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You'd should just ignore her. Make sure not to say any mean things back. If she keeps doing it talk to your parents. They will believe you. They may even talk to her parents. :) hope this gets better! :)
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Someone who bullies you is NOT your friend. Listen to your other friend.

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Listen to your friend, it's for the best.

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If she is bulling you she is not your friend

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I think that first you should talk to the friend who's bullying you, and tell them they are really bothering you. If they stop bullying you, be their friend, if they don't, they aren't even really your friend any way and you should stop being theirs.

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Listen to her!! She's not your friend if she's bullying you! Set her straight that you don't want to be her friend. If she asks why tell her that you're bullying me. If she ever bullies you again tell somebody. If you want to take it into your own hands, tell her to leave you alone. Sometimes you have to tell an adult. Good Luck!

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She'll deny it she did when she called me stupid in front of the teacher.
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oh I'm sorry. Then you have to take it into your own hands. You should know in mind she's not a true friend. You have to talk to her. Stand up for yourself.
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She'll ignore me and cry.
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Well if she ignores you avoid seeing her. Take a different route to school if you see her there. Change the route to your classes if you see her while you're walking in the hallway. Make sure YOU have confidence and show. Then SHE will hopefully move on to another person. Also since she denies things, try and get proof. Ask your other friend to take a video while she's harassing you.
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Be her friend just kidding if he /she is bullying you don't be her friend he/she would change after it

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Why would you even question being friends with a bully?

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Why would you ever associate with a bully ESPECIALLY someone that is bullying YOU! You should cut her off your friends list, tell her she's nasty, and let teacher, parents in on this behavior.

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Ignore her, like she's invisible, or roll your eyes and walk away. You encourage her if you react, it's what she wants. Tell her to get a new theme.. It's getting old.
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Have a older sibling? tell them you are being bullied.

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Maybe the bully makes you 'feel' either better or worse, it doesn't matter, stay away from the bully. Tell others.

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