through mutual friends that might have good judgement if they know any single women....you can maybe try plentyoffish.com or eharmony.com? Oh and i think there's Match.com too.. if youre not into the internet you might never know...could be at the grocery store or at some kind of function you might go too... Good Luck!!
a bar is definitely not the answer. go to nice girly places, like the library or a book store. the beach, park, even at the mall. one time i was buying a dress in a store and asked random guys to see if the dress looked nice on me. just pick one of those quiet places so you can strike up a conversation without having to scream on the top of your lungs over drunk people. plus, when you do get that girl, dont bring her to the movies on the first date. srsly. the worst place for a date. pick something quiet again like the park. make food for her. girls love to be impressed by a guy. good girls love that nice guy "i can cook and clean, but can still be a hot guy" lol. be yourself and dont lie. be really 100% yourself the first time you see her. and compliment and let her talk more. that guy muscle flex and oh, you dropped out of heaven stuff does not work. trust me, i believe i hit more guys that way.