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Will a shy guy ask a girl out, or is he too afraid to? Will he make a move or does he want the girl too?

Okay, so this guy I like is really shy. He talks to me sometimes on the bus, and once tried sitting by me (I would have let him but he kinda backed out.) He smiles and stares at me alot. Once he realizes I know that he is staring at me, he will smile then look away or blush and look away. He is a grade older, so we don't talk much in school and have no classes together. He is really nice when we do talk. One of my friends, pushed me into him. I know I was blushing and that he was too, (like really really blushing.) He is always figidy around me and won't stop shaking. He might just have ADHD though. He tries fixing his hair. I catch him staring at me alot, and he seems to like to make me feel uncomfortable. We are both in band, and our concert was on the same night. As I was walking out after performing, he saw me and smiled, he even clapped for me. He looked away though. He tries making me smile when he does talk to me, and tries to be funny, (he is.) I like him and stuff. I think he likes me too. I wanna date him. Do shy guys like it more when they are asked out, or do they prefure asking a girl out? Do they persue or be persued? He is normally pretty bold when it comes to talking to me. He sits infront/behind me or in the seat next to mine. Though, I don't know if I should wait for him to ask or just do it. Please help! Thanks =)

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That almost exact same thing happened to me D: lol but what think you should do is try going and sitting with him! Start talking to him then if you both have a phone just be like "heyy you should text me sometime" or just say how come u never text me?? And he will say cuz he doesn't have ur number and bam. Text him and flirt and stuff! If you don't have a phone just keep sitting with him on the bus and get him to feel more comfortable around you by talking.

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Well, I'm kind of shy too. At least when it comes to him. I would probably sit by him, but he normally sits on the outside. Should I just sit it front of him and try talking to him? And thanks
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Or if you could the seat beside him. If not in front of him works. And to start off I would just say like heyy how's it goin an just small talk then eventually start having bigger conversations
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And I know he doesn't have a phone. A facebook yes, but he never really goes on. Shoud I try chatting with him on there?
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Thanks!!
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Yes definitely MSG him on fb!
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And np :P
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Okay, thank you soo much!!
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Shy guys are too shy too ask someone out, it's ok if you ask him.

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Ask him im a guy and i would ask a girl out but i used to be shy and i always wanted to BE asked out not the asker just ask him

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Okay. Well I'm shy, and what if he says no? I'm kind of worried too
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He will if you "tell" him you love him

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Should I tell him in person, or over facebook?? I'm kind of shy too, and it would be hard for me to tell him in person.
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