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Phlorence_602

How do I become a better friend and person?

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Keep doing what you're already doing.....only better.

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I don,t know what that means.
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but it depends what you're already doing>
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If you are being mean to your friend, keep doing it ... But more better?
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Worst answer ever. What if you're a bully then would that mean to keep doing it!? WHAT?!!! No! Crappy answer
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He knows me..that's why he said that
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I think you're perfect just the way you are! 8)

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you dont even know her probably
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erm *someone's rude* cough hehe xD
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You're going to overthrow civilization and become supreme dictator of the earth - why would you need friends? Just order any of your subjects cowering in fear before you to do what you want.

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You told me you retired and I could be in charge now -______-
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I changed my mind.
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If I'm in charge isn't that my decision? -______-
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No.
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Argue less and agree more. Whether you're right or wrong! :)

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that just gives the person more confidence in overcoming you. do you really want to bow to everyone?
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But that's wrong, you should always stand for the truth, no matter how hurt your friend feels.
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Just put others before yourself, if you aren't already. I suppose...

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Be you... Don't change who you are for anyone

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Be honest with yourself and others

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who doesnt know that
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stay the same :)

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what if... nevermind, im sick of commenting on the posts idiots made
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idiots??? O.o
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Hey leave Melchie a lone !
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thank you my angel Liz.. :)

Don't worry.. It's okay... ^_^
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You're welcome Melchie how are you ? You feeling okay today ?
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not good Liz... :(
I can't control my temper, I think I'm so bad nowadays. I get a fight with all the people I love. I get mad with such little things and I hate myself for that. I want to say sorry but I can't. I want them to know I'm pissed and I don't want them bugging me so I won't get more mad. I want them to stay away for now. I hate myself.
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I am really sorry Melchie don't hate yourself. We learn from our mistakes. I know it maybe hard but we have to learn to forgive others and most importantly learn to forgive ourselves. That is a challenge for me. Because I have done somethings that I am not proud of and not wanting to forgive myself but you see I think that is a challenge for the both of us. To forgive ourseleves for what we have done. Also remember this God is always there and will never turn away from you. It will all work out Melchie I promise.
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Thank you Liz. I am really dying to talk to you about this. I know you will be a great help, and you always are :) Thanks.. Do you think I should give myself a break to everyone's attention?. I mean, this time I find them irritating, I don't want them to talk to me.. I wanna be alone to think things clearly and to understand why am I acting this way. I just don't understand :(
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You can control your temper when feeling like wanting to get angry at someone try to take a minute hold your breath and count to ten and when no one is around it is okay to scream. They are other ways to control how you feel when ever you feel like getting angry. Music is a great way to relief stress also another thing you could do if you have a journal take the time to write down how you feel. If not wanting to get mad at someone it is always good to write down prayers in your journal and to ask God for help and forgiveness and He will be there when you call for Him.
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I would definitely do that Liz. thank you Liz :) I just have to control my irritation before I lose everyone I love. And yes God, don't worry I'm not forgetting him. :)
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You're welcome Melchie and hey I will always be there for you to help you out in the best way that I can. I love you Melchie !
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thank you Liz.. I just don't know what to do without you.. Sometimes You know me better than myself hehe.. thank :)
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You're welcome Melchie when ever you need to talk about something private and don't want everyone to see you are always welcomed to e-mail me and if you like you can text me as well the next time I send you an e-mail I will give you my number if you like.
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That one is easy. It's the golden rule. Just treat everyone else the way you would want to be treated.

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People say that all the time, yet they don't tolerate revenge? Because revenge is basically treating an offender the way they treated you.
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That is wrong because the golden rule says to treat people the way you want to be treated and not the way someone treated you, for your viewpoint to be accurate you would have to welcome someone seeking revenge on you if the situation was reversed.
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lets just put it like that!

If you loved yourself, you would not put it on others!
Read it a few times, you will understand !

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You're awesome now. Make me food and you'll be even better.

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Lol!!
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Im serious
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From what I've witnessed from you on here sweetie is you already are! God shines in you!

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I don,t discuss religon with anyone over
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I am confused.... Was I discussing religion with you?
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thats creepy, how do you know her personalities... you never know
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You are now!!! :)

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I don,t understand.
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Be yourself. Be honest and not deceitful. Give more than you receive. If your friend(s) need help, be there for them. Keep a good sense of humor, be patient, and know who you are.

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Thanks a lot
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you cant your already that and more your a nice person phlorence dont change ....

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your grammer sucks
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You say it like its a bad thing = /
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be nth more than yourself but be true.do nth more than what you do but do good. nothing more ,nothing less .just you !

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if you want to speak olde english, its thee not you
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just be yourself

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Being a good friend is someone who is there for them and being a good friend doesn't always mean having to agree with them for their decision making. A good friend is someone who will be honest with them and give your opinion on anything and its their part if they want to take it or just ignore it. So just be yourself with them and its all about support pretty much.

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I know I just realized that after I post it, but I had a lot to say. Nothing wrong with that!
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Ask someone to hang out with you the whole day and when they find something they don't like write it down and try to improve on it. This will take a while so focus on one thing at a time and BE PATIENT

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Whatever you want for you, want for other

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Build your friendship on trust. =)

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Phlorence why would you think that ? We love you just the way that you are ! Could it may have been something someone said to make you think that way ? If so I think I can relate. Sometimes when ever someone says something about me it kinda makes me feel uncomfortable about how I feel about myself. But my best friend taught me to just stay myself ! We don't want you to change Pholrence we love you !

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just be honest and trustworthy and true to yourself
and others.

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No one can help you unless we know how you act around your friends and what your friends are like.

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all you have to do is be yourself and be an honest person. Just go with what you feel is the best and also don't let anyone get you feeling pressured about doing things you dont want to do.

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try being polite, think before you speak and sometimes you have to sacrifice a little of your personal pride inorder to please your friends/companions but it will turn out to be so much worth it.. best of luck!

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Your friend(s) are very lucky to have a good friend like you who care's about how you treat them. Here are a few tips on how to be a good friend:
1. Honesty. Always be honest with your friends, even at the hardest of times.
2. Respect. Make sure you treat your friends with kindness and make sure they know you respect them.
3. Trust. If you can't trust your friend(s) the your relationship isn't very strong. Also make sure your friend(s) trust you.
4. Be yourself. I know everyone says this but please be yourself. Don't be someone your not and don't get pressured into things you don't wanna do.
5. Kindness. Always be kind :)
6. Politeness. Be polite and always use your manners. P.s. I am not trying to sound perfect because I'm not! I don't always use my manners!

(Remember, your friends must treat you with respect and if they don't then they aren't very good friends. Please, please, please don't be friends with nasty people.
Hope these tips helped :) GOOD LUCK :)

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ENJOY...Enjoy...






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by being yourself only and only yourself not any other one .
and trust me someday you will find your everlasting friend ?

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I found mine !
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Your friend(s) should have nothing to do with whether or not he or she is popular.Be there for them.If you say you will do something do it.

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Come to know the true Lord Jesus Christ.

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Live everyday for GOD..and you will have figured it out!

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Give people compliments.

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Don't whine, complain, make fun of her and if she still dosen't like you then maybe shes a bad friend.

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Give everyone a cookie and they'll be happy :D

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Just be there for them, give compliments, and stand up for them :)

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Be there for your friend, don't talk behind their back, be nice to them, and if they don't think that you're being a good friend... maybe they're not a good friend.

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There are 2 scriptures that have helped me evaluate my friends and myself:
Proverbs 18:24
Proverbs 17:17

Hope I helped!

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Taking the time to nurture a friendship is worth every moment. As the years pass, some people will stay by your side, but many won't, and you'll realize that each friendship you keep is priceless. Of course, to have a good friend, you must be one, and it takes a lot of effort and care. Read this article to learn how to establish a trusting friendship, be there for your friend during hard times, and deepen a friendship to make it last.

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Most people dont like people because..... There bossy, they lie alot, there ugly, there sassy, too quiet, cry about everything, snitch alot,bitchy, smell, dont listen, say too much bad words, has no style, and talk about stupid things. There much much more to that

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Help people out and be kind to them.

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If you want to be a perfect human being then you should always have a positive attitude towards everything.An energetic attitude,dedication towards the job and be polite to everyone is the essence of a successful human.This kind of attitude boosts up the personality level of every human being.In a nut shell be adaptive,jolly and optimistic

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Keep your promises, help when you can. Don't make promises you can't keep, let people know they can depend on you

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be honest. if your friends get offended or get mad at for that then they shouldn't be your friends because there will be people who really love that in a friend.

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I agree with wwefan14 as usual. Were friends

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just be a good person then u will see ur error

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if you care you are already becoming one!

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Before you can be a good friend you have to be a better you. Listen more an offer advice less unless its wanted. Be supportive, honest, and loyal. Don't be a pushover though. Encourage and compliment your friend. Smile and be fun because everyone loves friendly fun people!

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If your asking me, because you care your friends, chances are its not you who needs to learn to be a better friend.

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Just be nice and treat them how you would want to be treated. Don't get randomly mad at them and if they get mad at you then try to be nice about it and don't gossip about him or her. Don't be a gossiper...cuz that is really bad and just know that it usually gets back to the person you gossiped about...

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be supportive,honest ,and funny.

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Love. Read 1 Corinthians 13; 1 John 4.

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treat others as you want to be treated, talk about others the way you want to talked about and make sure the people you choose have your same values

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to built your batter attitude............

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To built your batter attitude

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To do freindly everything

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It's simple Give 1000 chances to your enemy to become a friend
Don't Give single chance to your friend to become a enemy

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AHHAAN gud 1......
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Read more celebrity biographies?

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be humble and polite with every one to be a good person. try not to hurt ur friend with lie but with the truth....

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CHARISMATICENIGMA

i would probably go to a bar or to a game and meet someone. that is how i met my girlfriend. a a wwe wrestling event. we have been together for 6 months now.

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maybe your not a bad friend maybe they actually are
and to be a better person just be nicer and treat them the way you wanna be treated

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Give 'em bacon!

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that is the most stupid thing i heard today
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Hey, it works.
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BACON BACON BACON. Best way to eat meat besides beef jerky.
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You know its true to open and soften in your heart... simply do what you know is true, no matter what is happening in your experience.

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you are already good! :)

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compared to you probably
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Follow your heart. If he can't accept you for you, DUMP HIM O.O

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like they dumped you?
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exactly....:p
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Just keep doing what you are doing but better!

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so helpful dude
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yup.....itx actualyy
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See the GOOD on others rather than the bad. See the good in everything, actually, and take the horrid of this world and lay it aside. After that, being a good person kinda comes to you....

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In actuality, thats a really bad habbit to have. there are numerous scenarios where if you only see the good side of a bad person... you tell me the possibilities
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Well yeah, sometimes if you look at people, like a thief for instance, and say "Hey! They're really clever! I should be nice to them" it can get you in some trouble. But still, people shouldn't just walk up to someone and say, "Here's a list of your problems." I mean just be kind and not quick to judge. Even if you absolutely hate someone! My step-dad, as an example is someone I don't really care for. He's not very nice to me, or my mom or my brother and has done some inappropriate things. One day I was so mad at him and my mom that I said some pretty bad stuff. Then I felt horrible and went and wrote down every good quality I could think of in him. After all, we all sin right? And we all made mistakes, some bigger than others, and just as we cringe under how messed up our life is (whether we caused the mess-ups or net), others do too! I'm not saying that you're brainwashed, "look at that amazing, wonderful, perfect and pure human being!" but I'm saying just to not judge something when it's ruined, or looks bad. Then YOU tell me the possibilities of having a clean heart and open eyes.
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Just be yourself, your perfect just the way you are
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Just be yourself it's awesome to be you?

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be 100% you, and to be a better friend just be there for people when they mostly need you.

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100% may be a jerk, i dont know
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Just love yourself and do the same for the others
http://www.greyapplez.org/

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be honest

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you tell me...

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Nuuuh
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Look inside yourself. If you don't like something about yourself change it. always be kind and good things would come your way. don't just trust anyone people have to earn that. be there for your friend when ever you're able to. be a good listener never be so quick to judge.

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Honestly, I can't think of anything for you to be a better friend/person.
You are very helpful in a lot of ways and a lot of people appreciate that.

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By a person who is really caring,supprtive,helpful,nice,funny,honest,and cool

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trade places

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I think you're doing a pretty good job personal. Do the opposite of me and you'll do good.

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Get a whole bunch of money. Then you'll be really popular because everyone will wanna mooch off of all of it. You can rob a bank, or steal money from your friend. What the heck become president then everyone will have to do what you say. :)

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