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If we've been separated for 15 months.Live in separate states for 15 months..Both want a divorce.Is dating allowed?

Still legally married. Taxes all separate. Is it considered adultery if dating?

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yes he can use it against you when he files for divorce. He can get everything if he wins. You can date as long as he doesnt find out. You just can't marry til its final. I waited until I filed for divorce before I dated again. He didnt sign until months later but I did my part. So as long as you sign the papers he can't hold it against you.

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live in a no fault state and he has to prove i have committed adultery by video or pictures.... adultery is not considered if we have been separated (so says NC law) adultery punishable by crime is only if it has happened before separation. and didnt start dating s/o until after being separated for 13 months.... is it still considered adultery??
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If he has no proof I wouldnt worry to much. Move on and be happy! I sure did! :)
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Yes it's not illegal but if you do it it's proving you are not loyal wait until you have papers saying you're divorced

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If one or the other is seeking grounds for divorce yes it could be used against you, but it appears that both you and your spouse mutually agree that you want to dissolve the marriage, so no, if you want to date enjoy yourself and have a good time, life is short...)

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not seeking grounds for divorce. already agree on a divorce and have been separated for 15 months. i live in a no fault state so only grounds for adultery is by proof with video or pictures... so is it still considered adultery??
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I would say no but to be sure ask your divorce attorney...
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Yes. My mom never got a divorce but had been remarried. After a certain amount of time, its considered divorce

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