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I asked my friend out and he said "I'll think about it" is he obviously saying no?

he wasn't weird about it or anything i heard him talking about it with his friends

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if he has to "think about it" hes not worth it anyways

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now im dating him
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He's obviously saying "no". Move on.

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I think you should take it as a no. There's no point in hoping that it's a maybe and he comes around. If he does great, but move on.

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let him think about it. dont make assumptions. LET THE MAN THINK

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Your answer made my day haha
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If he said I'll think about he's probably going to think about it. It's happens to me. It's 50/50

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Im a girl who constantly has trouble decoding men. I think a guy's answer might be better suited to answer this question.

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He means no. If he wanted to go out with you, he would have said "yes". I would move on to some other friends, or make new ones. Good luck.

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He's not interested. Sorry :(

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No, he's not interested in you, but I'm sure that there will be plenty that are.

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He's letting you down easy.

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Seems that he has no interest. So yes, it's probably a no.

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He's probably thinking about it ... Maybe he's weighing the risks of going out with you.

What if you break up? Will you remain friends? Does he want to risk your friendship over that? > Those are things he could be thinking about.

I'd say give him a day or two ... but not more than that ... then ask him if he's thought about it, and what his answer is. If he was thinking about it, he'll have an answer (or should). Otherwise, just say "thanks for considering it, maybe later" and move on.

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Noooo he is obviously saying he will think about it

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Thats a strong maybe = /
but if he has to think about it then no

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He's letting you down easy, don't ask again... Move on

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well, it's tuesday. he told me yes on facebook
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So... It took him 4 days? Just be careful, he had to ask his friends first... He may be expecting more than you want to give. But I hope it all turns out great for you....;)
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Maybe he wants approval from his friends or advice.

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