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Does extra weight matter when it comes to love?

Sure, you may love someone despite their appearance but can't something be said about all of us as far as first impressions? I had a baby not long ago but I feel I'm still attractive despite my extra lbs.. However, I'm having trouble believing that a man would think so.

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If a man truly loves you, it is for you exactly the way that You are..... unconditionally

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And a bigger woman is not repulsive? That's what I was always lead to believe
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Absolutely not.... not even close ..... Never think that about Yourself, no matter what anyone has lead You to believe...
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that one man should love you for the way you are not the way he wants you to be

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Plain ole fashion no

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Yea once you fall in love you feel an attraction that can't be broken if they had a kid with you I don't know why they would stop loving you even with a few extra pounds big people get married to big is not meant to be mean

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Most guys I know like girls. With a little meat on there bones. They also like women who are confident. So if you fine with the extra few pounds, walk with confidence, and you will find the right man.

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Don't worry you'll be fine. I know someone who is like 400 lbs (not at all joking) and she has a bf and they are both happy :)

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a man you truly loves you will never reject you for how you look he would always love you for who you are at present a true relation would last forever by loving their partners feelings by not loving the way they look.

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Not love. Dating pool, maybe. But you are a very pretty girl, and baby weight comes off, so you will be doing just great when you decide to date.

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Nope

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Love is a choice, and act of the will, weight is simply a number that can be changed. So on the one hand, you have love, which is infinite, and on the other, you have weight, which is finite.Can the finite ever hope to influence and change the infinite? No, of course not, don't worry about your weight, and if those few pounds really matter to you personally, just work out a little, they will trim off quickly.

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Do you really want someone that cares if you have a kilo or so of extra fat. You'll find someone, you're very attractive.

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Honey,you are not defined by your weight.It's what in your heart that matters.The right man will love you for who you are,and if he doesn't,then you need to kick him to the curb.Don't settle for less.I know.I'm a big girl,and I am loved for me.You will find love!

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Im a guy and if i love her it doesn't matter what she looks like... Some of us guys aren't as shallow as most guys...

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baby fat comes off. dont sweat the small stuff.

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It should not. If you love someone it means it is unconditional If not get rid of him or her

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if there is love appearance doesn't matter to them.

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Most guys at first impression usually are more attracted to girls w/o extra lbs They can still love you though.
I'm a bodybuilder and walking or cycling are easy cardio and work. Go for at least 20mins. 3 to 6 days a week. You look like a pretty girl:-)

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