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I fell in love with my best friend.. Im terrified, my best friend is a girl, I have no idea how to deal with this..

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How old are you? That is a very important question because you could be very young and confused about your sexuality, or you could be realizing that you have been fighting with your attraction to girls for a long time. I would talk to her about it and see how she feels. Maybe she feels the same way and you two could have a wonderful relationship. If not, at least you got your feelings out in the open and you can move on. :) Good luck and I hope everything goes well and you find happiness...

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There are only two ways of handling this situation. The first one is forgetting you ever felt something like that for her and moving on; this option will prevent strain on your friendship and pain for both of you. The second option is to man up and tell her the truth, which will give you a shot at being her boyfriend.

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I highly doubt "jessica1001" will ever be a "boyfriend".
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L0vEmuSiC
You always make things interesting, cj lol.
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lol
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L0vEmuSiC

Why not go for it? It could either change you're life for the better or make you feel horrible for a while.

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just tell her how you really fell? ^__^ if you dont ask you will never know maybe she fells the same way just sit her down and tell her make shur she knows your serious.

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FEEL *** XD sorry my bad
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You're probably just thinking you are. That's how close of best friends you are! I've never felt like that before towards my friends. So I can't tell you what I'd do. It's probably the feeling of best friends. BEST friends.. If you're sure. And you are sure you're sure, I guess... Hmm..if shes straight then uh. Don't go for it! That'd just collapse the whole friendship.. I know.. I've had people not even BE my friend just because I play VIDEO GAMES! people can be cruel if they wanna..

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If you are terrified, then don't act on the feeling. Love shouldn't be terrifying. You are perhaps too young or not in a good environment for this feeling.

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tell her how u feel and talk about it with her

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if ur friends..u can talk. watch her body language...it will tell alot. dont be afraid of honesty.

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