My dad taught me to have no regrets. Live your life for You! Because in the end its just you & you want to have no regrets, saying I wish I wouldn't have but I didn't because he/she didn't like it or didn't want to. He said. $crew them just do it! .... That was from his death bed
Not to care for someone and try to help them out the best you can while making yourself suffer and have to hide from them hurting you and tearing you down then you just having to rebuild yourself back up again just to instead of them showing that they care about you would rather tear you back down into nothing and leave you laughing and smiling about it behind your back and you too stupid to even know about it until at the last minute.... I have had this done to me numerous times with my mother and some people who I thought were my friends, but really found out they were not instead just mean.... Unless you can really trust and know that they ain't that type of person to do you that way then it's all good..