What does it truly mean to be yourself?
People always say to "be yourself", but lately I've been struggling with knowing if there is a difference between being myself and who I WANT to be. I'm shy, calm person for pretty much of the time, but I can never focus and I always come across as weak. I want to be silent in the way that comes off as serious and smart(not in a too serious, snobby way though). Like even though I don't talk much when I do, it matters. Is changing the way you act not being true to yourself?