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what are the effects of strict parents on a 15 years old girl? her dad is always humiliating her infront of people, her mom never has time for her. beside that they always boss her around with gender discrimination among her brothers... they don't let her go anywhere she wants only places they want her to go... so what are the effects?

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Depends on her reaction to it. If she is submissive to her parents, she will get along fine with them. If she is not, she will not. If she has a right attitude towards authority she will love them and will be thankful for the guidance and protection they have afforded her all of her life. If she gives in to rebellion, she will hate them and be ungrateful for all they have done for her and only appreciate it after she has children of her own.

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Every person reacts differently to their situation. Best answer is be her friend and guide her down the right path. If you feel it's warranted call the police

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Nobody said anything about beating.
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There are more ways to abuse a person then physically.
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the effect of political correctness makes kids think punishment,and.a parents judgment is abuse,and they distort the truth to make it seem so to thousands of strangers on the internet

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Correct. Political correctness is quite possibly our most dangerous and cunning enemy.
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hatred starts as the immediate reaction and once it is not nipped in the bud then howsoever nice the parents are there after the process cannot be minimised-since this feelings received in the young age will be difficult to earase

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At the very least, with strict rules and constant protection, she will remain safe and unharmed long enough to grow into a young woman who can then take care of herself.
It's a sad fact, but this world is far far FAR more dangerous for young girls (and boys) than they want to believe.
As for gender discrimination, I don't believe it should apply to education and girls should be able to study as boys do. However, as for rules on going to certain places or not, there is a definite difference in outside dangers for girls than for boys. It just is what it is, and she needs to remember that for her own safety.
I know it's frustrating and infuriating to put up with, but the effect of loving protection and strict rules is a healthy, well-balanced, educated and ALIVE young adult.

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No one should humiliate anyone else in public. You should talk w/a counsellor to determine if your parents are exhibiting abuse or if your father is only expressing concern but doesn't know how to care constructively & if your mom is really neglecting you. How many brothers, what ages, & what birth order? @ different life cycles, a certain child may need more attention, male or female. Some parents are overly protective. Who are your friends, & do your parents know them & their families? An introduction might ease parental concerns about places that you want to go w/your friends. There is too little information to answer a multi dimensional question like this on line.

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