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Why do many women not tell a man who is definitely good looking in the face that they find him good looking? Are they insecure?

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No, I think HE is for Ask.ing this question...

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and look how many people are apparently "insecure" cuz we aren't all over him -_-
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"C'mon! Tell me I'm hot"...lol
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lolXD
Not with that profile picture!!!;D hahahaha XDD
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I know...I could probably use a little nose job...8)
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XD Yeah... hahaha
but oh well!
You're hot anyway XDD
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Are you happy now? :P
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I am perfectly content...can't you see my smile? 8)
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lol yes, and it is beautiful!!!
see BigDan79, some girls do that! Only to nice guys ^_^
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I'm nice AND good looking AND just "starred" AND "funned" everyone on this silly question...8)
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lol XD totally!
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You should change your profile name to "XxHappyxX"...8)
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Or XxrainbowstickxX lol
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Wtf just happened here?
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hahaha i changed my username XD and sorry i had to wait 30 minutes to comment again haha
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Maybe the guy just thinks he's good looking but really isn't. I'm thinking that guy might be a bit conceited

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I do appreciate your comment and that guy is me. If you knew the whole story behind my comment maybe you would have a change of heart. But hope you have a great weekend.
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One can only answer a question using the specifics given
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Btw. Every woman I've been in a relationship with has told me I'm hot , good looking, easy on
The eyes, or something along those lines. I've told everyone they need glasses.
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I hear you bro. I believe in the "Golden Rule" and that's do unto others as you would have them do unto you. With a good and generous heart, to follow this simple concept one cannot go very wrong.
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Zoe500

not all women do that ! Every woman is different then the other , Some are shy , some are not ! It depends on the womans personality !

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FunnyLittleFrog

Because that sounds nuts, whether you are a man or woman.

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For one, the man who thought is complaining about not being called hot by a girl all the time is probably too insecure himself.

And not every girl is going to walk up to a guy and just be like "HEY! YOU'RE SMOKING HOT AND I WANNA GET WITH THAT!"

Also, some girls might think the guy it hot, but when he calls a girl 'insecure' then he probably has a very selfish personality that nobody likes. Why would you compliment you... i mean, a guy when he's being a jerk?

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It actually was about myself. I have friends that are women and they never tell a man (not just me but any man) that he has a nice face or is good looking, etc. Now they do tell us about other men looking good, but never to the man when he is around.
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well yeah, because a lot of guys now would just look at them and make fun of them. Guys have become a lot less mature and now women just figure that if we say anything we'll get judged or whatnot
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Yes. They are obviously insecure. As proof, no women has ever told me that to my face.

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I think you had the best answer. Been dating this lady for a long time now and has complemented her on her looks as the gentleman that I am. Now I know I'm not a Hollywood Star with all the money they have to look spot on all of the time, but am a descent looking dude. I think women fail to admit this because they maybe think like trash themselves or don't want it going to the guys brain. Who knows.
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We only say it if we know or can tell if he needs it. For example: if he's concided we won't tell them but if he's nice and humble yeah will tell them!

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Culturally, men tend to fall into two categories. The guy who acts the confident macho, & the guy who is a romantic poet. The "meat market" mentality of our extreme visual culture hasn't quite exaggerated the male appearance like it has the female, but we're getting there. A man w/a double chin & beer gut will comment on the physical features of every woman. Women are still caught in the culture of the impossible skinny & technologically enhanced video appearance that it is nearly impossible for a woman to comment on a man's appearance w/out anticipating backlash.

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