Why are some people attracted to tall people vs short people, or thin people vs curvy? Why do some prefer redheads over blondes or brunettes?
It's probably worth noting that being attracted to one particular type, doesn't suddenly make any of the others less desirable or beautiful - just means that they weren't the right type for that particular person.
I personally am not gay but I know someone who is gay and someone who is lesbian and they both like what they like because of qualities either sex provides for example women for there loving and affectionate side and guys for there dominance or the feeling of protection . Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Gay people appreciate beauty just as much as anyone else. Imagine yourself making love/having sex with a member of your own sex.... that's how gays feel about the opposite sex. Just....blah. I have my personal feelings about this, but hopefully my comment will give you some insight. Have a good day.
Its not about the labell of who you love. You can't help it. Its that one person that makes you smile when you're having a bad day. To them it doesnt matter if its the opposite sex, its what their heart wants. The heart wants what the heart wants and even that which is worse for it.
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Why is someone else's attraction an issue for you? Do you go around checking to make sure everyone likes the same music and movies you do? If they don't, are they deviant? Why are you spending even one minute on what other people like?