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KellyPinkyz: 4 months ago

He cheated but want me back

We date for more than a year. I didn't know he cheating on me until a few days ago by his email. He refused when I asked him about that. He said "oh it's my cousin not me". I yelled him. Like 15 mins after that he told me the truth. He cheating on me just a fews day ago until I found out. He said he just joking with her but he didn't know she take it serious. So he told me that he decided to ask her number to tell her to stop. I told him this moment don't say any lies at all. So he told me he also cheating on me before and it's all on dated sites and on the phone. He said he didn't trade pictures at all (I don't really believe it )
He been asking me for a chance last night and today when we were on the phone a fews hour and see me face to face.
At the first time I said no. So after a while, I say yes. Idk what it gonna be. My feeling for him is just a little right now even I loved him a lot. He keeps saying that he love me, he'll fix everything, blah blah blah. But honestly I don't really believe it a 100%. I'm confusing :( I don't know what I want :(

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rustyboilerz: 4 months ago via Android

Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater! You can do far better than this. Hes proven, multiple times now he doesn't care to be true to you and you only. Kick him to the curb, and let him read static if he calls or texts you. It's time for you to move on, and find the decent person who will RESPECT you for who you are. ;)

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Seriously3: 4 months ago

Good answer!

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rustyboilerz: 4 months ago via Android

Thanks, as I'm nearing the end of my time here, I just want to do my best.

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Seriously3: 4 months ago

What? Forgive me for asking, but are you speaking in general terms or are you I'll? I feel so rude asking.

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rustyboilerz: 4 months ago via Android

Cancer. I'm too far gone for real help. Doctors say maybe Christmas, maybe later. I'm praying for later.

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Seriously3: 4 months ago

I'm so sorry. May I add my prayers to yours? I'd like to follow you if you don't mind. You give sound, no-nonsense advice.

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jjjjjulieH: 4 months ago

Do what your heart wants, I personally wouldn't go back if you're not 100 percent sure, don't, it will end badly.

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EdwardGoodman: 4 months ago

kick him to the curb and throw out the bait for another fish

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Seriously3: 4 months ago

Well said, Edward!

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jazi91: 4 months ago

what makes u so sure he wont do that again in the future ... ? he did it twice already and the first time he cheated u haven't found out about it ... so what if u wont find out about the rest ? , maybe u will when its too late ? dont take it too far its better to move on now than when ur older , no need to waste time on lies

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hankbrown: 4 months ago via Android

truly a young man bites his will not stop in the future he likes what he's doing and he want you to believe that it's all gonna be alright. If you accept what he has to offer you will be in a very wrong relationship do what needs to be done drop him you're young life is more important to you at this time it would be better for you to seek someone else that has love for you unconditionally

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janadu: 4 months ago via iPhone

I'm a little confused. Is he physically cheating on you, like having sex. Or is it emotional cheating, like talking on phone and chatting on Internet.

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Sincerity: 4 months ago

I was wondering that too. It was kind of hard to tell. Maybe she'll reply. I voted "helpful " for your answer because it was a good question to help her.

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lennonfan4: 4 months ago via iPhone

Cheating is cheating

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KellyPinkyz: 4 months ago

Just emotional. He still live with his parent so he can't bring any girls to his house except me. And I know his schedule at work, which he always tell me even I don't ask. He spent time with me as he could. But otherwise, I'm not so sure he went to a date with anyone or not

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bud4u: 4 months ago via Android

if it will make you feel better to keep him & hurt his feelings then do it or drop him now. Your very cute & he shud be loyal to his princess

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echooos: 4 months ago via Android

he's a lying cheating dog! why would you even consider taking somebody like that back. you know what they say once a cheater always a cheater

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114kaseytang: 4 months ago

He's not reliable

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auxarcs: 4 months ago via iPhone

Stay away from him. Of course he wants you back but he will keep cheating. Clearly hinesty and loyalty and integrity are not important to him.

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NikkiYC: 4 months ago via iPhone

A relationship is based on respect and honesty. He obviously doesn't qualify to the kind of man you want to keep around. Why would you worry yourself wondering all the "whys"and what "ifs". I couldn't have that on my conscience. There are a lot of good men out there that can give you security of their good intentions and mean what they say. You will know when you come across that person.:)

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