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How do you read people to know when there are being truthful

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There's no way to tell when an experienced liar is actually lying.

Robert Heinlein wrote that there are three ways of lying.

The first is to look the other person right in the eye and lie through your teeth. This is the method used by amateurs and beginners.

The second is to mix truth and lies together so that the lie is swallowed along with known facts. This is the method of salesmen and politicians.

The third method is to tell the truth, the whole truth, but to tell it so unconvincingly that nobody will believe you. THAT is master-class lying.

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All good to know. I'll get started on these skills ASAP. Will my dog fall for it? That's who I'm around most. ;-)
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Dogs are pretty smart. I'd start with people -- they're easier to fool. :)
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Look into their eyes.

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see: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P_6vDLq64gE

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Ask them about what you think they lied about earlier. then they'll have to think about what the lie was, or then they'll say, "I don't remember talking about that" and then you'll be like "BAM! YOU A LIAR!"

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What drugs are you on
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Well, I am 13 years old, so I am not on any sort of drug, and never will be when I am old enough to! If you haven't seen my profile, then you don't understand why I am like this. I tend to be over happy and my ADHD takes over and be like "Yo. You happy now!" and I be like "WEEEEE! :D" and besides, we need happy people in this world!!! Happy people are awesomee!!!
Sorry if I'm too happy for you! ;D
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You can't.

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This is the right answer. You never can really tell.
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when lying most people have the habit of directing their vision to the bottom right and when recalling they direct their vision to the top right corner, this has been proven.

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Ask them a question you know they would answer truthfully . Note how they react then ask them the question you want to know the truth about . Are their reactions similar .

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When you recognize someone as not being lying, they are truthful. Really.
Like when you wanna know if someone is healthy.

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The lies people choose to tell can be just as revealing, or more so, than a factual statement. Textbook example - a person who is obviously much older than than the age they say they are, is actually telling you that they are afraid of getting old. And that's the truth. If we know how to really listen, to read between the lines, and to remember that we tend to believe what we want to believe - we are not so easily misled.

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