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How do I tell my mom I'm bi?

A few weeks ago, I discovered that I was bi. i really am, but I don't know how to tell her. She's fine with bi people, but I just don't know how to tell her that I am.

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Say "Mom, I am bi. Please don't scream". I had to tell my dad that " I am still dating Cody and I don't care if u hate him."

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You are so hot
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That's more than likley not her
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Just tell her... Get it done and over with so you don't feel like you're hiding it from her

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Approach her sternly and calmly. Don't drag it out too long and let her know that it's just who you are and that you hope she, as your mother, could understand and respect that.

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write a letter and let her read it while your sitting there

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Just tell her what and how you told "us".

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Just tell her , be like mom I'm bi

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just talk to her privately and tell her your bi its really easy I told my mom that Im gay I just had a confendense like I don't care what my family thinks

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How old were you when you told her?
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Walk up to her and tell her "Mom I have something to tell you." and then if she asks "What is it?" just say "I'm bisexual." plain and simple.

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Should i txt it to her wen im at school
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Tell her in person. Seriously a text message? What happened to just walking up to people and talking.
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Don't tell her it will just upset her

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Just tell her,mom I like it both ways.

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Watch a TV show with your mom, and when a girl comes on be like "She's really pretty." and when a male actor appears say: "He's also very cute." Then say: "Heck! I'd date them both"

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Thats a smart method but shed think im joking
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Maybe ill try it
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good luck(:
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Thats very creative
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thank you(:
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If she's fine with it... then why tell her? It's no'ones business but ur own. And I stress that period. If she's meant to find out, trust me she will, if not, so be it!

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I would wait a few yrs. You sound like your young still in school. I love my children if they were gay or bi I would still love them all I care about is there happiness .but right now you may be experimenting wait until you are sure100% why say something you may not be or what if you find you are totally gay. Then your not bi.From what I've been told more than Likely your are either straight or gay no in between that's why I say give it time until you are totally sure . OK Good Luck.

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