10 months ago
Last edited at 10:52PM on 2/24/2013
because..... you want him to like you for someone you are not instead of liking YOU? No dear never change who you are just to get someone else's attention in the end they will resent you for deceiving them and YOU will resent them for not loving you for yourself and you will kick yourself for not being the real you. No one is worth being "fake" for, if they can't like who you are they will never love you for who you aren't because in the end you won't be able to maintain the facade.
I suggest to stay the way you are and not act like someone your not. After all the person you like needs to like you for you . Not for someone trying to be someone else . Be yourself and if he can't accept that . He is not your guy.
lol i did that with a guy and omg I HAD TO BE SO BORING FOR HIM. my first mistake was pretending to be okay with not so loud music in the car. i mean whats the point of driving or road trips if you do not like loud music? and so i had to suffer with stuff like that and i couldnt take back my word xD glad that's over. later on i met someone who was kinda my style and liked loud music while driving just like me! so yea dont change..find someone you enjoy being with xD
It depends. If your personality is blunt of very quiet maybe be less like that. But don't put on a whole airhead act because a guy likes clumsy girls or anything like that. If you completely change your personality for a guy then once you're in a relationship you will constantly be acting and worrying about slipping up. Trust me, I've been there.
No course not. don't change to impress someone somebody will love you for you and you won't have to be someone your not:) its always good to be yourself and be original :) if he doesn't like you for you well then he's not really worth your time and that's just something people need to accept :)))
That's the worst thing for you to do sweetie. The moment you start changing yourself, the easier it gets for him to manipulate you. Next thing you know he's gonna be crumbling your cookie and breaking your heart. Find someone who loves you for you.
9 months ago
Last edited at 10:24AM on 3/4/2013
Well that depends... Do you actually like him or is it just a silly little crush?? And if he truly liked you as well you wouldn't have to change.... Just be yourself, if he doesn't like it then Damn him
Hell NO! What's the point in your relationship then! What if he actually falls for your fake front your putting up? He's not liking you he's liking someone that doesn't really exist! Be you girl! be proud of it! If a guy doesn't like you for you and or tries to change you, he LEGIT isn't worth it.
NO. never EVER change urself for a... a GUY. Look, I changed MYSELF for a boy, to how I thought he wanted me to be. And guess what he did? Dumped me, and went out with my best friend, who wouldn't change herself for the world. So don't change urself! There's only one of u; ur unique and special, and if this boy doesn't like that, he's SOO not worth it.
I agree that it is not possible. It makes it even a more difficult situation when one has been pressured into becoming like them, even when you tell them from the beginning that you are probably not what they are looking for; but become so aggressive about you being theirs that it is almost impossible to walk away.
9 months ago
Last edited at 3:07PM on 3/10/2013
absolutely not! be who you truly are! dont try to change your personality just for one person. if he doesnt like you for who you are, then dont feel bad. you can always try to be with other dudes who have things in common with you and have similar personalities. there are plenty of fish in the sea, and never spend all your effort just to please a guy who may not even like you
i personally would not because its just downgrading yourself, and be yourself and if he don,t like you then its his loss not yours. everyone has there own personality don't change it its what makes you you. please don't change for someone else just be yourself ok.