If my father gave me the choice to either get spanked or something else, and I chose to get hit, is that abuse?
I am remembering when I was younger, that my dad let me choose to do air chairs or get spanked. I opted for air chairs (squatting with my arms raised for a certain amount of time). But I mean, if I willingly chose the belt because it is quicker, would that be considered abuse? Im not saying that he'd belt the **** out of me but I mean spanking might be like pulling off a band-aid.