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What questions should I ask a cheater?

He had an emotional affair online, through text and phone calls. What questions should I ask? I want to trust him again but I want to know things...and I feel like I'm running out of questions..

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FunnyLittleFrog

Don't ask him questions you don't want to know the answer to.

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what have you already asked him?

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Easy- ask him straight out "where were you" or ask him specific questions double times to see if you can double cross him. If he seems true to his word, let it go, but don't let your guard down.

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Do you know the answer to this or what are you doing when you see them cheating

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before you ask him something, say these words "Listen, I need you to tell me the truth on this-insert question here-" make sure your voice is serious yet hurt and sad if you know that hes cheating on you a good question would be just to flat out ask him 'are you cheating on me?'

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Does it make you feel good to date 2 people at the same time?

Does it make you feel like a better person?

Do you understand how many people you are hurting?

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How do you feel about Jerry Jerry

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NURocker

Ask the questions you want and to swear to something that's IMPORTANT in HIS LIFE

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Whats left you found out ... Cheating is cheating ..... So the real question is what are you going to do about it...?
You have 2 options stay or leave....

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What he going to do new to keep from being a cheater?

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It's doubtful a man had an emotional affair online. But the questions you should ask are the ones most relevant. Are we or do we plan to be... married, monogamous, serious, casual, friends, or two people just hanging out. If you have the honest answers to all those questions then you'll know exactly where u stand with one another.

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How is it doubtful he had an emotional affair online? We have lived together for 3yrs so I'd say it's serious
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If ur assuming things about your relationship then all u have is a guess however educated. Men don't cheat emotionally. They r either physically involved or their trying to b. Other than that it's just conversation. Hope that helps.
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First of all what am in assuming about my relationship? He admitted to having an affair online with someone, it went as far as planning to meet at a hotel n another state.that's not just conversation!
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Read what I've said again. Ur assumptions r about you and him and the relationship u have, or maybe just want. As for the other...They were not planning to meet at a hotel to connect "emotionally". U know that and that is my point.
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I Didnt say they were goning to meet emotionally. I said the actual affair was emotional, meaning the had a 5 month online relationship, telling each other they can wait til they got to see each other (which never happened), calling each other sexy gorgeous honey....and I'm not assuming anything about our relationshup.
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If he was in relationship with u while in a 5 month correspondence with another woman just itching for the chance for the two of them to meet, then I'd say u assumed everything about ur relationship.
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Who u been doin.!

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If you know he's been cheating dont ask questions just get away from him

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