As beautiful as love feels, well, it's very painful, too, because powerful feelings are involved, and if you have an especially tender heart, well........ I feel ya. I can relate. It can be like a death.
Because one person always loves the other more in a relationship. One is willing to give up more than the other just to be together. Often the one that gives more or gives up more feels ripped of because the degree of loyalty isn't the same. Eventually the one that gives the most benefits the least from the relationship.
Assuming you were dumped then that person really wasn't in love with you. It's going to hurt for awhile . Don't beat yourself up. There is a huge difference between loving someone and being in love! The big word is "in"!!!
It hurts most people the same, if you think the other person doesn't feel as bad as you then it's probably because their feelings for you were not that strong. Think about all the songs that have been written about broken hearts. Time and keeping busy will help
go out meet new people! get over it! there are so many people out there! and the best part of that is they are all so diffrent from eachother. they are never the same. i think its all in self confidence.