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Any suggestions on how to meet a nice man.I don't like dating sites or bars. thank you !

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I've actually met several very nice men on Match.com. I've also met guys on Facebook, school, through some of my friends, and at work.

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men dont find dates on facebook. Boys find dates on facebook.
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haha lol!
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Thanks Ninja!
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Yep yep :)
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You're getting to be a pro , Jackie-san !
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I know guys like conservative girls not ones that know the whole football team...
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Haha you are correct, Mr. Wayne! And are you calling me a wh0re, Sean?.....
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Better not be ! I think he was just making a statement ! We all know you Jackie-san , so we know better !
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Thanks Rob!
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helixaqua

Go to a Supermarket...we are always there :D

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Not me ! Wife has banned me from shopping because I farted in the store and blamed her !
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helixaqua
Lol....I like to open up stuff and start eating....and not pay >:)
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lol You are both funny!!
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8)
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She used to get mad at me for that too !
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hahahahahaha that's so bad!!!
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Look in the ice cream section, that's where Helix will be!
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helixaqua
What about testing the spray deodorants...that is always fun. Even the workers get mad :D
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Hell yeah Tony!
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hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
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My wife would look at me and say : Now, what are you eating ? Usually chocolate covered raisins from one of the bins !
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Church

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Not me ! I was banned for farting in the store and blaming it on my wife ! She's banned me from shopping with her !
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Sorry Gators , that was supposed to be in Helix 's comments .
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Go out to public and start takin to the ones you like that don't have a ring

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Phlorence_602

Go to Portugal...there are a whole lot.
But of course, my eyes are on Mexicans :D
You can have them all.

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lmao!
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good answer! I have been to Portugal, but didn't find one there lol thanks for answering
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lol! MEXICANS!
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Go to a nice movie alone.

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good idea, thanks!
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Ima nice man glad to meet ya. See how easy that was?:-)

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hahaha....
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nice to meet you and follow you!
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yw :-)
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Through a friend.

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thanks!
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im right over here! :P jk, try a church, or maybe a park. also, perhaps a charity orginization.

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lol good answer thanks!
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Make guy friends by hanging out with friends that know single nice guys try speed dating or try doing more stuff with your friends like surfing or something new and that you never tried before and that is a public place and interact more with people you could also try volunteering and meet a guy who likes to help people too

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great answer thank you! i like to volunteer
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Your welcome :)
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Chatroulette

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i don't understand what that is
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If you figure it out by all means, plz let me know? Lol...

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lol I will!!
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Go out boo(; Make yourself noticeable don't be afraid to let yourself out into the world. You'll love it trust me.

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thanks I do need to get out more, very helpful answer
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Find some sort of social gathering around your town. Bad men are not likely to want to sign up to help clean up town or do a walk for charity ;))

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Good point!
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well my mom told me when you do the activities you like to do you will eventually meet someone very sweet along the way. If you tried that i have a feeling someone may come along. =)

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Follow me and you will get your man. lolz :)

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wow that's corny
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Yep. I like it :D
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It doesn't matter, you can find them everywhere.... as long as you stay away from my man of course...

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hahah I promise i will
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:p
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Ask your friends if there friends know anyone then go to a event that they are going to that he is going to.. But you have to be realistic on what you define as nice, as nice guys usually get mistreated by woman who want real men. Also don't string a nice guy along while you date multiple guys at the same time. It's like a amusement park you cannot go on all the rides at the same time, you must wait in the line for the good ones. Have the passions to wait and it will be a ride of a lifetime...

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thanks great advice
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Hope so...
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Don't fret... im right here! :D

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lol thanks, that's a cute answer
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Even your name says it all :D
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Awwww, thank you so much!
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If your friends are social, do a lot of stuff with them so if you meet someone, the friend might know him and could vouch for him or warn you to stay away. There's always going back to school and taking classes. I found that school is sort of a natural ice breaker and an easy way to meet people.

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great, helpful answer thank you!
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I forgot to mention that getting dog might help. I read some studies that people approach people with dogs more so than babies. But not everyone has the time, money, or space for a dog.

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Get a dog! A dog is a guy magnet! We can't resist them! Woochaboochaboo who's the big boy? You are! Yes you are! Yes you are!

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helixaqua
Lmfao!!!! Well done!
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hahahahahaha great answer!!!!!!
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Thanks :-) haha
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At the Gym!!!

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ok there is this web site and i use it and there is ppl getting bf's and gf's all the time its called zwinky

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thank you for the info!
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yep in fact you can use my old one
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Here I am :) Lmao

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hi nice to meet you!
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Hey nice to meet you too :)
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Ya u could met me ?

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lol....thank you!
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Ya!
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Craiglist

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Don't be shy , be a lil bit naturally aggressive, , love is always right next to you , you just have to learn to see it , usually , everyday stops , and frequent stops along the way is , where it will be , and always no matter what , notice, quietly , approach wen it feels right , not wen it LOOKS right!!!
not Craigslist , pyscos on there!!!

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Meet him at a park or somewhere special you want to go.

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Work or School

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eHarmony and just be open. You can meet nice people in the grocery, church, any place. But be careful and meet face to face some where in public where YOU feel safe.

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you can meet me

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i think if you just be yourself then the right guy will see just how beautiful you truly are. it just takes time i have learned and thanks to some of the advice i have gotten from a lot of smart people i know what to do. lol. just be yourself k. your beautiful no matter what. :)

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you're very sweet, thank you, you are a beautiful person too !!
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