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Getting a tattoo my x may not like.

I have wanted to get this tattoo before we broke up. I never told her then. Now that we broke up it may bother her. I was her sons father figure for years. I want his name tattooed on me... what do you think.

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Honestly, I dont think it would be to smart to get it, you have separated and she doesnt have to let you see the kid anymore, since its not yours. I admire what you did for him, but its a risky undertaking.

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If that's what you want, do it. If she is now your Ex, her opinion shouldn't concern you. If you just want to avoid arguments, have it on your arm where a long sleeved shirt will cover it. Then she doesn't have to see if it you don't want her to.

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its ur son 2 she shouldn't b mad

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who cares what ur x thinks its ur life and u can do what u want to do if he judges u for a tattto then id no he truly doesnt <3 u

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Are you going to let your ex-girlfriend dictate your life? I think you should get the tattoo if you want. Besides, how would she know? Do you still hang out with her?

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Go for it! And I hope you still get to visit her son

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Do what makes you happy if that tattoo is what you want in the end all will half to be happy with it or get over it its something you want you should get it and your ex if she cares or has a heart at all will accept the fact you got the tattoo that you wanted

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you shouldnt even get a tattoo. its like saying to God, " you didnt make me good enough, so im going to fix it." it is a total act of rebellion and is not supposed to be done.

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lol then why cut or dye your hair or shave or makeup or... Ohwell. i have a few already . fairy lover? really! lol and i am going to hell... read the bible wiz
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Who has control over your body? You. In my opinion a person, when an adult, should not allow anyone to dictate how to live their life, to get a tattoo or not, etc.

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Don't do it!

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Don't do it dude it's not your child just because you were a father figure towards him means nothing

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Nope, don't do it. It will just cause suspicion and confusion

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I get tattoos that signify a good strong point or person in my life. If I was with someone and their child was just like my own and that child had an impact on my life I would get the tattoo. That's just me though. Also if she's your ex it shouldn't really matter what she thinks. I understand its her child and all but its not her body and she cant technically stop you from getting it

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I don't think it's smart to get anyone's name tattooed on you but hey. It's you're body and she should not get mad. You are still an important part of his life! Just do it if you want. c:

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"x's" ARE very selfish!! Aren't they? They threaten to over take "Y" and "Z" and just hate tattoos that don't have "X" in them. Sorry....





(Oh and next time, spell it out!)

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whatever your heart desires

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