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My ex says I was into the relationship more than him. I was not clingy at all. What did he mean?

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I'm sorry that you just went through a break up, but he just didn't want to be with you. Either he lost respect or desire for you (or both). There are SO MANY men out there who would treat you right and would love to be with you. Hang in there :)

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Racking up the points on Miss "Clingy, Didn't Click, 99 Reasons, blah, blah, blah." Women love to commiserate.
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Lol! I've done it, I'll admit :D
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He wasn't as sure about the relationship as you.

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He doesn't want to see you anymore.
Sorry if that sounds harsh.

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You liked him more than he liked you. He wasn't focused on the relationship and you were.

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He's just not that into you. Thank him for not wasting any more of your time and find a guy that is into you.

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he does not want to be with you anymore your sure to find someone else

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Yeah it's his way of saying he doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore or maybe he wasnt ready to fully commit..mine was the opposite he aid i was embarrassed or didn't seem comfortable with him?

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It pretty much mean he didnt care as much as you did so that gives you all the chance to hang up and not take his crap you dont deserve that i would be like idc what you say to me im still doing me and ill be the one actually having a life while he doesnt

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It means he's more into himself than anything and you should be thanking God for getting that loser out if your life. You deserve waaay better!

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This is her 3rd question on his so called excuses. He's either a jerk on wheels or she's making these questions up.
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Well ask your self did you chase him or he chased you understand as men when we get something easy we don't respect it when we work hard for something we take care of it or maybe he wasn't ready to be whith one woman try to allways look inside a person sometimes it work but always make your self happy that's why GOD gave us eyes.

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He's basically saying that He doesn't want a serious relationship. Don't stress, He's not the only one in existence.

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He was possibly just wanting a casual relationship, not ready to get serious or committed, where as women or girls are more emotional and have deeper feelings.
It makes guys look kinda shallow but we are just wired differently, this is more of a generalization based solely on my opinion.

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You were more mature and dedicated to make it work. He probably haven't reached that part in his heart or mind yet that you were probably willing to show him how to love you better. Sorry about the break up, but cheer up it could also lead to a new and beautiful beginning; you'll get someone on your level and just for you, keep smiling its ok.

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Find someone that will love you and be glad to be rid of him; it was only a path to misery.

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