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Is it wrong to cheat on your wife if you know she's cheating on you?

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If that's how you're gonna behave ... just divorce her.

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never

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Yes it's wrong. How about man up, get a divorce and then find someone else.

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Two wrongs don't make a right but if she's cheating and you're thinking about it then the marriage is already over anyway.

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not necessarily, it can be fixed if they want it
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two wrongs dont make a right!

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Yes it's wrong, unless your just as useless as the person cheating on you, then have at it.

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Yes it's wrong. It's wrong for her and for you. Sounds like you and your wife should consider divorce.

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If your both cheating on each other get a divorce ugh hate cheaters

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Me too!
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Sure it is, and as soon as she jumps off a bridge, you do to. That way, you'll stay even.

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you should do if u have 2

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that's what an open marriage is....

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Wrong is wrong, no matter the circumstances. Either get in counseling or get a divorce.

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If you know for sure, why not talk to her? Try to get her to explain why she is cheating.

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As long as she comes home then that's what it counts. Tell her you know she is cheating on you but you will never do that to her cuz you know how much pain it brings. She will stop cuz of your example.

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yeah just let her know you're cheat and even up. jk get a divorce itll make things less complicated :) then you wont have to cheat...just be with the person you're cheating with on your wife and vice versa. unless ofc you wanna be a free person. seriously marriage is like prison. BEEE FREEEE XD

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no then you a stopping to her level live her and find some one you will do you right

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if your questioning being faithful and she's cheating already why even continue

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Yes it is wrong because if she is cheating you have something to blame her for and if you cheat back she wont feel so guilty because you did it to

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OHHH MYYY GOOOD GRRRIEF! Did you REALLY ask that question????

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I know, really.
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Divorce the chick and find someone better and make sure she knows you know she is cheating

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If your spouse committed murder, would that give you the right or reason to?

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It you know then tell her and divorce her... Dont continue acting like a little boy. How about you grow up and act your age for once in your life?!

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K, mom. Lol
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Yes, two wrongs don't make a right. If she is cheating divorce her. Why would you stay with someone who cheats?

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Just because she is doing it doesn't mean you should so don't do it.. it would just be even more problems just leave her and then find someone better then that you don't want to look bad just because she does

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No it is perfectly right

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Cheating is not right, regardless if you both do it! Why stay married? You don't respect each other so why prolong the inevitable.

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was she cheating on someone when she married you? it's a simple fact of life....if they'll cheat WITH you they'll cheat ON you.

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Wrong. Just plain WRONG.

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just breakup no need to fight fire with fire.

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never. Dont do ANYTHING eye to eye with your wife. U must just talk to her about it and say "Hey whats going on?" A talk is always helpful trust me. Just because someone does something bad to u doesn't mean u should do it in return. That's not the answer and thatt will not solve your problem

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Are you crazy? Of course its wrong..she's wrong for cheating but don't lower your standards just because she has. You'll have more respect for yourself if you do the right thing. Honor your vows even if she has chosen not to. Get an annulment or a divorce and move on sweetie. Best of luck and I'm sorry for the situation you're in.

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Yes,because that means your just getting revenge, and revenge isn't the answer. What you should do is sit down and talk to your wife let her know you know what she's doing. Try to agree to get some counselling. I'm not saying couselling works in some cases they don't but at least you tried.

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Two wrongs dont make a right

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Two wrongs dont make a right, you should cheat on your wife no matter what. If you dont love her then just divorce her.

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If you have kids DON'T divorce and try to work it out but not in front of the children. If you don't have children, leave her NOW!

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Really? Of course it's wrong!!!!!!!! 2 wrongs don't make a right... just get a divorce

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NOOO.. just ask her and if she denyses it show her you have proof.. but it is usally the guy cheating on the women. The reason she is probaly cheating cause you dont give her what she wants sorry

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very harsh
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no you should be the bigger person and not cheat just get a divorce so you dont have to worry about find someone else who loves you

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yes !

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Of course it's wrong. Get a divorce. If you both can't stay loyal to each other then you guys are better off alone.

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