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I have a good friend that is a guy we spend a lot of time together. I stay at his house sometimes. He can be mean and hurtful sometimes but no one else can be mean or hurtful towards me. Also one time he felt the need to check my phone he seen something that made him mad I don't even know what he saw and he won't say. He tells everyone were just friends so then why does he act this way. Just looking for honest opinions.

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You are in a relationship that has the signs of being a dysfunctional relationship. It sounds like you don't have good self esteem. Get away from this jerk. Find things to do that will make you feel good about yourself. It only gets worse if you stay.

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Hes just jealous of you getting close to someone else

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I don't think he's sure of his own feelings yet. But if he is mean and hurtful to you, perhaps you should rethink your friendship.

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What do you mean no one can be mean or hurtful to you? Are you a princess? Anyway, maybe he thinks of you more than a friend. About his attitude, maybe he is just a natural jerk.

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Lol No I know I'm not a princess but I'd like to be. Lol. Your right his attitude can be jerkish, he can also be the nicest person.
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I think he acts this way cause he likes you. He probably just wont tell you cause he thinks you dont like him. Also probably cause he tryed to act to be your boyfreind. He was being protective of you. Which is kinda cute.

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Checking your phone without your permission was NOT cool. He crossed the line and sounds like a jerk. Being that controlling and jealous is not a good sign for the future.

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