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So my bf got a text last night from a girl saying hey this is sarah from justhookup

she said she put more pics on her profile.i asked him what it was about and he said he had never been on that dating site and wouldnt ever do that,but how would that girl get his number?i have always trusted him we live together and have been together for a yr now.he told me i could look at his phone but i didnt.just dont know what to think about some girl texted him from a dating site what u think?think it could be a mistake or anything other then him on a dating site????

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Don't completely jump to conclusions just yet. I've been getting some weird emails and texts over the last couple months - not from that particular site, but where it's like "hey this is Jane, saw your profile. Let's chat sexy" and stuff like that. Except I definitely don't have any dating profiles anywhere. I even had one that said she got my info from FB, except I've double and triple checked that none of my info there is visible to anyone - not even friends, so I have no clue how they got my cell number.

So he legit could just being targeted by spammers. Especially if he is letting you look at his phone and messages, I'd say you don't have anything to worry about. If he was trying to hide something, you'd probably know it.

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well thanx makes me feel better i love him so much and never would think he would do that i know he loves me just thought it was weird and didnt really know what to think of it
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It's "spam".

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she could be a stalker cuz that happened to my girlfriend

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That, my dear, is called spam. They mass send those to random numbers. I, a girl, have gotten many.

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What do you think? HELLO!?!?!?!?!?! Men they do CHEAT...something to think about

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Some do, yes.....but not ALL men cheat.
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Not all get the opportunity to. Lol
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relax dont jump into conclusions its probably a old ex or someone who still likes him you should trust your boyfriend because hes not paying attention to this girl and hes not making it a big deal cause hes not hiding stuff from u plus he was willing to even let u look threw his phone even thow u didnt and some girls will just start stuff because there jealous of what you got and want to ruin it but i know your smart enough to not let a girl do that to you and your boyfriends relationship u trust him hes not making it a big deal because he doesnt even know this girl this girl could have the wrong number.

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I would not worry too much about it. The phone numbers for cell phones get recycled. Maybe someone else used the site and registered that number when they had it.

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There are auto dialer bots out there that just send texts to THOUSANDS of numbers every second. Especially if there was a link in the text, it could very well be spam.

It's a message that is generic enough to get a person to respond to, and by responding you're showing that your phone number is active, and the system registers that so they send you more spam. Just help him block the number on his phone.

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Well, you typically get that from visiting a lot of porn sites. If they get a hold of a mail address or phone number, they will send spam to it for a while. Don't worry, it will stop eventually. He just has to be patient, and not reply to any of them. Let him know, that I think he should use a web proxy the next time (i.e. https://www.kproxy.com/ or http://hidemyass.com/ )

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Social networking sites make their money by selling user's personal info. That's why i don't have a facebook account. Any tom, dick, or harry who asks can get my info, including my phone #, if its on my profile, with minimal hassle. It's spam. Heck, all anybody really needs to do is punch in a random number, and eventually they'll find somebody's cell number.

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It really sounds like text spam to me especially if they want you to go to some website to see pics. Why not just text the pics?

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It's probably Spam. If he's never given you a reason to doubt his loyalty, why question it now.
The same thing happened to my Brother & Sister In Law last week. My SIL, felt the same way as you. Then her best friends husband received a text from the same woman the next day.
Have faith in your man. Trust is the most important part of a relationship.

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Welcome to spam XD!!! That happens all the time. Except since I don't use my email except for schoolwork and use my mom's email for gaming she gets random spam from women. Which is weird XD! Welcome to spam so don't flip out XP

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That's probably spam. As much as I enjoy being suspicious of people, I've gotten those too and they always sound like they know me when a)I'm a straight woman and b) I have never been to their site.

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Hi just relax and pay attention! If it happens again get the number and call it and ask her what's up !

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I get those all the time...spam even on my emails

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wow...handsome...
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I got the exact same text. It's spam. No worries!

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In the last week, I've had three messages from women I don't know pretending they know me and they are ready for a relationship. It's nonsense and spam. You know your boyfriend better than anybody.

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You text her back & reply too late he's already hooked up with a wife & 5 kids. Take it from the wife who knows . Have a nice life seeya. She won't bother him again.

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check his phone.

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I have gotten random texts like that before, its just another way of advertising (annoying) but its to get you to their site. They could have gotten his number from anywhere (like if you go to a store at the mall and they ask for email or ph # and a lot of times companies sell that information to other companies) they could have gotten it anywhere. But you might also try calling the number (from his phone if you can)

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