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a girl keep saying that she likes me so much and even loves me but Then she ignores my texts and gangs around other guys.

she'd made an excuse that we cant date because we dont have classes together. but we text all of the time. i really like her but she acts so Weird when she See's me Should i start looking for other girls? or try to stay with her?.

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Young man, are you trying to figure out women? Haha ... (sigh) ... don't even waste your time trying to understand females, it's one of the great mysteries of the universe!

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You have concered the female! (in your picture)
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Obviously she's kind if messed up

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other girls

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Wise answer, Wy.
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Thanks :D
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That's weird. Jeez, if I liked a guy and he liked me, nothing would stand in my way. I'd MAKE it work. Obviously she doesn't wanna commit... Sorry to say, buddy, I would look elsewhere. :( She sounds like she's gonna play with your heart a lot.

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She has issues concentrating

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lol
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No body is worth waiting for if you have to ask complete strangers

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She trollin' you bro :P sorry.

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She's not serious about this. And doesn't like you a lot or love you i'll tell you that. Look for another girl,one who actually knows what she wants .

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She is a flirt. I would not pay any attention to her, otherwise she will break your heart, if it goes too far. Move on, move away from her, and meet some others. Good luck.

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I would ask her out right away if I were you!

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You sound like a 14 year old like me. Dont try to date. Trust me. Just wait till were older

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ha i am.
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I seriously doubt you two have spent enough time together to form the emotional relationship that is considered "love." I don't think even SHE knows what she wants or who she is. It's not something to take offense to, but I don't think you should chase after her if she (intentionally or unintentionally) is playing these games.

As for "looking" for other girls, my recommendation would not be to look like you're finding a candidate to fill a role. Don't bother searching - just let a relationship develop. You'd have to be friends first before you can love a girl. Don't worry, you've plenty of time! :)

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Just pick another girl. I feel like she will bring a lot of trouble to you. Just say "I knew you were trouble when you walked in"

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We've know each other for four years and.been really close.
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Well idk man. It's your choice. Good luck
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I was kindve in the same situation, I was head over heels for this guy and he said he loved me and that I was the only one for him but now we never talk cause everytime we were together in person he would ignore me and hang out with other girls and leave me just standing there alone and then he would text me and say I love you and one time we went to a football game and he said he had to go to the bathroom and he then later said that a random girl came up to him and started kissing him.............I was heart broken and he wasn't worth it, so all im gunna say is that this girl will be like that guy I had and just play with your heart and tell you things youll wanna hear so that you can be hooked on her cause form the way I see, she likes attention and wants to play around other than be fully into you...........go for other girls, there are many fish in the sea and youll find the rright one when you least expect it!!

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Ignore her. She's obviously not worth your time, and obviously doesn't love you

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Suggest that you should continue, she is a good girl, but I need your care and love.

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I would forget about her, pretty lame excuse when you go to the same school. Sounds like a tease... Move on and find someone that isn't so shallow minded and definitely more mature or at least knows what they want!

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thanks.
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Obviously she does not really like or love you:(

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She is very messed up my brother had the same problem .

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Shes probably lying about true feelings ... but its up to you if you want to try to work things out with her even though trying to work it out may just hurt you more

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