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What do you do when one of your best friends is like obsessed with you but you just wanna be best friends?

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mangagrl

Just act nice to them, but not super duper nice! Show them u think they're cool, but sometimes u just need some space

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tell them

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Just go and talk to him/her what's going on between us!

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Talk to them. Tell them that you're down for BFF but she's just a bit overboard. Be calm and nice but be direct. Develop a code word between you two, so if she's doing it you can just laughingly say the code word and she should tone it down.
If she still is obsessed, maybe time to cut her off til she gets herself together.

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It's a him lol
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Maybe he's in love, then?
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Even better. Advise him that controlling behaviors are not cool and you'd live to stay BFF but he needs to cool it or your out!
The code word thing works
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He is and is very sweet but he don't give up
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Talk to them tell them whats on your mind

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Tell her. I had the same problem as you and it just got worse... Tell her that you need some time to yourself good luck (:

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It's a him lol
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Ooohhh lol srry (: then he probably likes you... Tell him you just want to be friends and nothing else(:
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He does like me lol he's said it plenty of times he said he won't give up
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No matter what you do or say they will always want more and think they have a shot. Find a new best friend

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Talk to them and tell them I want to be friends and that does not mean I hate you.

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He knows I don't hate him were bet friends I just don't want nothing more
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Talk about being obsessed with someone else lol he should get the message.

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Say your one of my best friends and i don't want that to change.

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Thank you
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No prob.
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