When is poker too much?
my x boyfriend and I are close but he is so into poker. I understand a man needs his thing, but he devours his life with it. he also said "it's my passion". but when he loses his entire demeanor changes. he and I have been hanging out like once a week, but now it is less and he plays poker several times a day. he plans on going for "higher stakes" and working less at his good job and eventually quit his job and play poker full time. is this normal? I have never met any one like this. he is a great guy and I have feelings for him, it's just hard to deal with. lately, all he talks about is poker. I had an emergency and he didn't ask how I was, but he went on about poker. it made me mad. can someone give me some healthy advice as to how I can manage this? I need some advice