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im living with the people that abused me and i know i should of reported a long time its to late now because im eighteen and i keep getting bash mentally and emotionally for no reason by my parents honestly for noo reason now but its way better then that physical abuse before im always cleaning doing alot for them im like a maid my parents are stopping me from getting my license moving out seeing anyone and from working a hard job so im pissed off i think i have the right to be idk weather i should leave this house without there opinion now that im old enough to or be a good daughter and listen to my parents

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You're 18, leave. Abused or not, it's time to leave.

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I would contact police

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Move out, you're old enough to support yourself.

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you're 18 what are you waiting for move out if your being a abused. why would you stay and let them treat you that way

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Call the cops right after you move out. if you have a friend or different family member to live with for a little until you get your own place, live with them until things settle down.

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your 18 move out with a relative, or are you scare of what?

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my parent arent nice and arent great people and after being punch and injured badly before and i tried leaving at a young age and it just didnt work its hard to explain everything it just tooo much to explain
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Do you have a little cash? Rent a hotel. Crash with a friend. Get a job and get your own place. What on earth are you getting out of this situation that makes it worth sticking around? The hardest part will simply be deciding to do it.

If you are a good person, you ARE a good daughter. Regardless of their behavior. If you feel abused you should NOT stay in the situation because you feel the need for the abuser's approval.

So get out and get a job. Go to the DMV and get your learner's - you don't need your parents for that (be sure to get your social security card and birth certificate, first!) And do what YOU have to do to get out. Even moving out to a dorm in college would be a step up.

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You should move out thats judt plain owfull but first tell the cops

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get a job and start your own life

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thanks i have money saved so thanks thats what im trying to do now thank you cassy33
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your welcome
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Call police PLEASE!!

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You can & should definitely leave. You'll love it, living your own existence, earning your own money. I hope you flourish.

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You are 18. Honestly, why are you contemplating it? What do you think this is Cinderella? This isn't a fairy tale. There's no fairy god mother, and no handsome prince to wisk you away from all your troubles. You need to move out get control of your own life.

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honestly i needed to hear that to get more motivated to leave i have everything i shouldnt worry about what my parents are gonna do or feel i should leave thanks cause i honestly needed to hear that and have a good day
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Your welcome. Good luck hope it all works out. :)
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Thanks again i appreciate it
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Leave! Talk to the police. Find someone else to live with. Get a job save your money get your own place. Get a learners permit then your license and get a car. If you can't get your birth certificate and your social security card from you parents there are other ways of getting your own copies. Don't continue to allow your self to stay in this situation you are 18!! Get out!!! My best friend had to run away to California from Colorado by herself when she was 12, If she can do it so can you

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thank you so much like this really means alot
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Contact help but,why are they just abusing you for know reason i just dont understand

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the same reason why she got mad just five minutes ago because she was leaving and i heard her i didnt say anything she got mad over it and started picking up stuff and hurting me i told her i heard her she got mad and everytime i try talking to her calmly she calls me out of my name threatens me and picks up stuff i try holding her back she goes again honestly that is a stupid reason to get mad about especially when anytime she does leave for the night she text me or just leaves i really wanna hear ur opinion on this
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what do yu need help with? please elaborate....

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I just wanted to know whats the best way to go by this should to leave my parents house and not take any abuse from them now that im old enough even if they get mad or call me back home still leave in general or stay because you know they have health issues and no one can take care of them there just gonna yell at u but i figured the best thing to do is leave and not get hurt anymore any kind of way im a adult who needs to just leave and do this on my my own and use my money and get a place
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i think you should leave asap can. you're a young lady with your whole life ahead of you. if you're done with high school, get yourself in2 a college. that way you can kill 2 birds with 1 stone. Money you say? there are grants and loans you can apply 4 that will be extra $ for your food and lodgeing as well as your chosen classes. plus, you get an education and that will help 2 inprove the quality of your life from schools start 4 the rest of your life. if you just get out of there b4 school starts remember, if you stop in 2 check in on the family, you can leave and go home to YOUR place whenever you've had enough of da ole home grown the lip service it sounds like they're so use 2 handing out 2 you over there... i hope this helps you chicy. bouna fortuna
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thank you so much have a good day
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prego.... like the spaghetti sauce means "you're welcome" in Italian. anytime. my daughter in all grown up on the other side of the country. She doesnt seem 2 need the old man as much as she use 2. It was nice 2 give some old guy advice 2 a young lady in need of it. thank you and Bouna fortuna (Italian 4 "good fortune") ciao
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i dont have a answer , but i love cake, what is your favorite cake?

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Try to move out if you can. If it gets to bad call the police or stay at a friends house. If they know where some of your friends live try to go to a friends house they don't know?

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