The best way to handle such a kid is through positive reinforcement. In addition, you should improve on your parenting philosophy by using reason other than emotions in terms of discipline. Furthermore, you should learn what triggers such behavior and find a way to make it right.
Umm you could do what my parents did to me which was whoop my a$$. It worked I'm a pretty respectful person now . I also don't cuss thanks to the one time I did and my mouth was washed out with soup not just soap but liquid soap .