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There's this girl who is one of my best friends and i really love her with all my heart and soul ... Help me plz

she knows i'm in love but she doesn't know i'm in love with her ! and as i know her, i'm about 80% sure that if she knows that i love her, she would be really upset and our relationship would be over! i promised her that i'd tell her who is it i'm in love with! so, what should i do? should i break my promise or her heart ? please put yourselves at my place and help me :(

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Tell her you're in love with someone, but you're afraid that person may not feel the same way. Then see how she responds. If she seems to lose interest then she may realize its her and that would verify that she doesn't feel the same way. If she seems interested and inquisitive, then she might "hope" that its her. Good luck and I wish you the best!

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I would tell her. Come on, always trust your heart! :) Even though it may be hard, you have to do it sooner or later...make it memorable :)

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But what if i tell her and pose her 4ever ? She's actually all i have ...
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"always trust your heart" is very bad life advice. Our hearts have no brains
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You have to tell her. It's really the only option. You can either tell her or go on forever loving her and not knowing if she loves you back or not.

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But what if i tell her and pose her 4ever ? She's actually all i have ...
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Write her a note or a letter. If you're not good at that, buy her a card and give it to her.

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Tell her how u feel!! One of my bff's told me how he really felt about ne and we're together now. Just be honest.

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If you guys were really friends, he wouldn't care if you totally loved her. Maybe she even loves you back!

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tell her in a really cute way so even if she didn't love you she might start to and say yes

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Tell her but do it gently like , im in love with ... you. See what she says. She might feel the same way! Good luck i hope it works out!

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But what if i tell her and pose her 4ever ? She's actually all i have ...
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She might but at least its out in the open. She shouldnt judge u for how u feel
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If you don't tell her now you will regret it later. And there is nothing more painful then watching the one you love holding hands with someone else because you were to late. It would completely destroy you inside. Trust me. Just go for it and whatever happens happens. If she truly is your friend and she has some kinds of feelings for you she will still be your friend even if she doesn't "love you" completely. But never stop trying, eventually she will notice you more and more (:

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Don't do anything about it. Give yourself a chance to grow up.

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