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Rose_that_be_me
Rose_that_be_me: 2 months ago via Android

How do you tell your ex boyfriend you're pregnant...with his baby?

Ok so I'm 18 and he's almost 18. He asked me out two weeks ago. We did...uhm "make love" the first day we started dating. (HUGE mistake i know so dont chew me out) He dumped me the next day. And now he's dating someone else, and i am too. But i just found out im pregnant with his baby so I'm trying to figure out how to tell him. He's sort of a dou**e so i know he wont care but I still need to tell him.

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Shawty120
Shawty120: 2 months ago via Android

Well dont abbort the baby because to me that sounds like a horrible idea if you cant take care of the baby the baby for addoption and tell the father of the child "remeber that night we made love well guess what your the dad of this baby wether you like it or not and if you dont care youll have to pay child support for the mistake we both made

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Doc1887
Doc1887: 2 months ago

With court ordered child support papers.

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gameboy18
gameboy18: 2 months ago via iPhone

Just tell him. You can't hide it forever

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LouisianaAustin
LouisianaAustin: 2 months ago

All i have to say is good luck and wear protection next time...

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oarkergreatdane
oarkergreatdane: 2 months ago via iPhone

You say , "wow! We both made a huge mistake!"

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Girliegirl2012
Girliegirl2012: 2 months ago

BOTH of you are responsible for what just happened. Certainly old enough to know better. Please get on the pill or invest in condoms. You're as guilty as he is.

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susan_18
susan_18: 2 months ago

Ask him to meet you somewhere and tell him the news. goodluck

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laurennnnn
laurennnnn: 2 months ago | Last edited at 12:36PM on 3/2/2013

Somehow you will eventually have to tell him but right now I would look towards questions you will need to answer for yourself, keeping it. adoption, abortion? It is a difficult decision. I hope your family is supportive enough to take the news well. Talk to Mom and Dad and see their opinion. Remember there is only a short time you can have an abortion should you choose that. No matter what you choose you will have to see a Dr.and get medical care.

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krissyloveee
krissyloveee: 2 months ago via iPhone

Well apparently he didn't want to go out with you in the first place, just to "get some". But if your pregnant then its a whole different thing.

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Magooga94
Magooga94: 2 months ago

Well he wasn't your boyfriend. It was a one night stand. He just asked you to be your 'girlfriend' to get you into bed. Anyways just tell him, then your parents. Your parents will take care of the legal affairs.

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hawkmann
hawkmann: 2 months ago via iPhone

wow thats sad... Your stuck dealing with him now like it or not ... You have options he can give up his parental rights to the baby or you can file child support that means half his paycheck goes to you and the county.... Until the baby is 18 or 21 depends on the judge...

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swallex
swallex: 2 months ago

I'm pregnant with your baby and I'm forcing you to pay for it

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lsrnoso
lsrnoso: 2 months ago via iPhone

How do u know is his baby? Youvseeing someone else right?

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Rose_that_be_me: 2 months ago via Android
Me and my current boyfriend havent done anything yet. I was a virgin until me and my ex did it.
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lsrnoso: 2 months ago via iPhone
Oh well... That solves that riddle... Better break up with your current boyfriend now. Explaining a growing belly might get somewhat akward.....
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rsarnol
rsarnol: 2 months ago via iPhone

Well you both did the deed unprotected so you both have to deal with it, just tell him you gotta talk and tell him. Don't wait to spring it on him in 9 months. Who knows maybe the news will make him change his ways, or both or you for that matter.

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Bubblious
Bubblious: 2 months ago via iPhone

The sooner the better, except his family to want paternity test.

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