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So, I have been really good friends with this guy for about 2 years now. We seem to of gotten super close. He trusts me with secrets that he has never told and he likes me as more then a friend but loves me as a friend. He gives me a lot of attention and treats me really nice and stuff. However, lately I have noticed that I only really hang out with him because of how he treats me and stuff. So I guess you could say that I am kind of using him. Now, I know it is super wrong to use him so that's why I want to fix it. But the thing is, he loves me and thinks of me as a true friend and says that I am his only real friend. And because he trusts me so much, I am afraid of hurting him. So can you all please give me some advice here. I am so confused and scared.

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it depends how old you are. if your in middle school, your bound to break his heart. try bein friends until ur a sophomore in highschool

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No, I'm a Freshman in high school.
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be honest with him. its best to tell the truth, otherwise it can only get worse
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Alright. How do I approach the subject though?
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just go up to him and try to say it as nice and gently as possible
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take things slow , don't be scared be calm , because if your scared you might freak out and say something wrong, think twice before you say anything back to him. Keep the relationship you'll have.

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Yeah, I am thinking twice about it all. Because he sorta is in a rough spot in his life right now and has told me I am the only thing keeping him going so that's why I'm so scared about it all.
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Do you enjoy his company? Why can't you both just be friends. He has some very good points, he is able to trust. Maybe you are like most of us and are only attracted to the bad boys. They are wild, free, sexy and will break your heart. Why would you want to stay with a stable, trustworthy, friend who treats you well???????

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I do enjoy his company. And I guess I was just doubting our friendship for a minute but now I realize that he needs me and I do need him too. Thanks :)
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