How do you communicate with a girl you like without happening to start a argument or her attitude?
Here's an idea: don't make her mad and don't argue with her. Remember, no matter how much you know you are right, the girl is ALWAYS right. It could be a fact that you are right, but if the girl thinks she is right, then she is right.
Girls like a guy who respects them and who don't judge them. You should talk to her with respect and learn her moods so that you can know what to say and what you can't say.