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Me and my boyfriend have been together 9 months. I love him so much but now all we do is argue. And he always yells about something. I want

It to be like it used too. I always tell him I feel the relationship sliding. He says I'm just worrying to much. I do worry a lot. But today we got into a big argument over something stupid and I haven't even heard from him.. What can I do I turn this all around and make it the way it used to be?

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Break up with him but tell him how u feel

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I am trying to make it work as I said. Not just break up with him.
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I think y'all just need some space.

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I haven't spent time with him since last week. Space is not the issue here.
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You can't turn it around by yourself. He has to help and that's the problem. It's always beautiful at the beginning and that is what makes it hard when things go downhill.

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I can help u been Dateing my bf for 1 year and 7 mounts we had the samething but when we get in fight and I stop we both stay quite say I'm sorry I didn't mean it and hug him and tell him u want everything to be back to normal and try to not fight just try u always have to fight but u can do it don't give up

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Thank you maybe I should its just hard for me to do that. We're both very hard headed! That's makes it worse.
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tell him how u feel ..

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Think of what's starts the arguments and avoid those conversations. Whenever it comes up. Try to calmly stop the arguing before it grows into a bigger problems. Be sure to be nice.

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It'll never go back to the way it was when it was new, that's why it's so much fun to stay single and just casually date because it's *always* new.

This thing is only gonna get worse. Let him go and enjoy your new freedom to date around.

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DO YOU KNOW THAT
Husbands are an unpredictable lot
Ever craving for what can't be got
When things are cold, they like it hot
Always wanting what is not.
SO THERE IS NO MEANING IN ARGUING, please cooperate with the POOR HUSBAND.
From
Really poor husband.

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