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i am 17 and in love with an face book guy who is 23 he cheated on me and left me but still i love him a lot and cant forget him

he is in love with another girl she left him he is asking me to be friends and i cant what should i do is it love or teen friction

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First off , 17 & 23 that's not okay !
Second off , it's facebook you don't know him in real life
Third off, he cheated and he left you & you still love him ~ yes you r still a teenager so you are in a way different emotional level than this creep .

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hey he wanna take me for a movie shall i go he told me just as a friend
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Very good answer.
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shall i go or not
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Isn't he a facebook friend ? Anyways, he's too old for you thought what is so wrong with him that he can't find someone his own age ? Honeslty dude a creep - and he dumped you and still wants to go to a "movie" with you ... Okay yeah sure ... No !!!!!
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thank u guyss
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You welcome !
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@fred ... Thanks for the appreciation !
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russian, are you crazy? What is wrong with 17 and 23? It's only our current society which is in such fear of pedophilia that we think that every 17 year old with anyone older is in grave danger, it's simply not true.

Plus, depending on where you are, it might even be legal. You HAVE heard of close age exemption laws, haven't you??
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A 17 year old and a 23 year old don't have much in common - and she's a teenager she's thinking about her prom while the 23 year old shoud think about his future and his job ... no it's not me ... what is wrong with you ? two different interest & two different lives ...
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What about a 23 and 29 year old? Seems much better then, huh?

Also, what about the fact that the age of consent in some states is 17?

Seriously, it's ONLY in recent times (1970-1980+) that this mass hysteria has started, where people only focus on failed relationships (like this), and completely ignore the HUGE amount of successfull, loving, relationships that may also start out at a young age.

If I fell in love with a 17 year old would you also consider me a creep, even though I'm not?
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I think you should let it go....

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If you love him, I don't think you can just be friends with him. Move on, meet some new people, face to face, in person. Good luck.
PS; I would Not go to a movie with this person. You never know what will happen and you could be in danger. Please play it safe, and meet some people face to face. You can go over this person.

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First this is a FACEBOOK guy you don't even know ! He could be some 90 year old man behind a computer screen ! Only talk to people on Facebook you know ! Don't go to the movies with him or go anywhere with him . He could be a 90 year old man that wants to kill you which for one would be wrong for two is sick . Leave immediately stop talking to them . They are danger .

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i have met him many times and dated him
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Well then ...
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this definitely isnt love and think about it, he's obviously playing you, what does a 23-year-old want with a teenager? Then he cheated....thats not love, i know you're young but open your eyes...he's only contacting you because that fell through, you're his last call....find someone closer to your age

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Probably teen friction. Please ignore all the other ignorent comments which assume anyone who likes someone under 18 is a horribel pedophile, they are incorrect. You do have to be careful though, not because of the horror storries of kidnappings and perverts, but rather that things like this could happen. I'd say your best bet though is just try to forget. And next time you are in a relationship (whatever the ages), make sure you are in it for long enough to make sure you both have enough dedication. If you both *truely* love each other, age doesn't matter.

Take this as a lesson, and try to stay in a relationship longer so you have time to back down, and have time to assess whether it's genuine.

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If your under 18 and his over 18 thats not good ...... You can be friends nothing more and besides he treated you bad why would you want that ...

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Have you heard of close age exemption laws? That means, even if it's >18 and <18, it's still legal, if there's a small enough difference (e.g. 16 and 19, rather than 12 and 30).
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no i haven't heard that so how does it work enlighten me = /
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What state are you talking about because here in california thats how it goes....
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I'm talking about most states. How was I to know you were in Cali? And how is that even relevant, unless OP is also from Cali?
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Seriously how do you know he's even who says he is?

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Try stalking him

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